My husband and I are college friends. Both sides’ families are normal, so before we got married, we had a wish to work hard and change our lives for the better. My husband once promised that he would never let me suffer or work hard.
After we got married, because we didn’t have our own house, we had to rent a house. After I gave birth, the cost of living for the whole family increased, and I had to borrow more from colleagues every month. Meanwhile, her husband no longer remembers the old wish, he lives very stagnation. The job wasn’t making much progress, but he still stuck with it, while I advised him to look for a job with a higher salary opportunity.
Talking forever my husband does not listen, I have to change myself. I turned to get a part-time job at night and of course I didn’t have time for my family. Housework or food, taking care of children, husband takes care of everything. Before that, I also exchanged frankly, he also agreed that I am a money-making person.
During the past 3 years, when I made money, we bought a small house, at this time my husband offered to stop working, I accepted. To save you from boredom, I opened a grocery store for you at home to sell.
But since then, I find that my husband is no longer happy and treats me coldly. Even when I got home, he didn’t even ask me a question.
Once, I went to receive guests late, and when I got home, I mightn’t open the door. Looking closely, her husband changed the lock, called him, and turned off the phone. That night, I had to go to my grandmother’s house to sleep and return early tomorrow morning. Returning home in the morning, I saw my husband indifferently cleaning the goods, I asked the reason, he said: “It’s just that the lock is broken, so I replaced it, and the phone has just run out of battery”.
I suddenly felt a chill in my heart, why my husband didn’t care where I went or what I did all night. Later, I called him in to talk clearly, at first he was evasive, then he admitted that he no longer had feelings for me, and started dating another woman in the neighborhood. They got to know each other when they went to the gym together.
My tears were choked, there were no words left to say. For many years, I devoted myself to my family, but I received bitterness in return. Looking back, I feel foolish, suddenly rushing to make money, and now I have lost my husband and family. I still want to hold on, but I don’t know if I can live with such a husband? What should I do?
