When I was regarding to get married, I heard my husband say that I would live with my parents in the future and cried and cried in protest. I have heard many stories of the mother-in-law and the daughter-in-law arguing when living together, so I am extremely worried, afraid that one day I will be bullied and made difficult by my mother-in-law.
But my husband is the only child in the family, the newlyweds might not afford to live separately, renting a room was expensive, so in the end I had to give in. Even though my parents-in-law treated me very well before I got married, I still mightn’t let go of my worries. Many people’s feelings before marriage were still good, but following living together, the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law still turned their face. So in the early days of being a bride, I was careful in everything I did, afraid that I would offend my husband’s parents.
Recently, I have been my mother’s bride for more than ten years, my thoughts regarding the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law have gradually changed, no longer as reserved as before. Because my mother-in-law and I live under the same roof, but the relationship between mother and child is very close and harmonious, there is almost no friction. My mother loves me dearly and treats me like her own daughter.
Every morning, my mother gets up early to prepare lunch for me and my husband to bring to work. In the followingnoon, when I came home from work, my mother and I cooked together, talked, finished eating, and my mother forced my husband to wash the dishes. The day I gave birth, I was also a mother-in-law who took care of everything. That’s why I have 3 children under my arm, but I am still free, have time to take care of beauty, go out with friends.
Whenever my husband and I quarrel, my mother is on my side. At times, my mother even bluntly stated that if one of us had to leave the house, it would be my husband, not me, causing him to “distort his face” and doubt whether he was a son or son-in-law anymore. . Sometimes when I think regarding it, I feel that I am very lucky to have such a good mother-in-law.
A few days ago, I was cleaning my room when I accidentally found a gold ring, exactly like the one I was wearing. After putting everything together, I burst into tears when I discovered the secret my mother-in-law had hidden from me for a year.
The story is that last year, I carelessly dropped the gold ring on the crevice of the bed. The value is not great, but it is the ring my husband proposed to me, an important keepsake of the couple. However, that day, because I was in a hurry to pack things for a business trip, I did not have time to search right away, so I asked my mother-in-law to stay at home to look for her in her free time. Mom knew how important that ring was to me, so she agreed immediately.
