82.1% compatible according to scientific calculations by Married at First Sight experts, Julien and Elodie said “yes” to each other in last Sunday’s episode on RTL-TVI. The feeling went directly between them. This week, viewers find them at the hotel where they spent their first night together. At first glance, the magic always seems to work. “Waking up this morning next to my wife is a feeling I’ve never had“, says Julien. “It’s a wedding night like I imaginedexplains, for her part, Elodie. There were lots of hugs and kisses.“
The newlyweds continue to discover each other. During a conversation, Julien decides to strip naked. “The dark side I have in me is when I’m tired, quite simply“, he said. “I can make very bad decisions.” According to Audrey Van Ouytsel, doctor in sociology and personal development coach, “it’s the perfect time for confidences” car “authenticity and sincerity are essential values for the couple.“Still in their hotel room, Julien and Elodie discover that they will be going to Croatia on their honeymoon. A destination still unknown for each of them…
On site, they indulge in a surprise activity: kayaking. “We are very well equipped, with a big suit, a helmet, it is true that we look a little ridiculous but ridiculousness does not kill“, then launches Julien who does not seem to be convinced by the exercise he is going to rub shoulders with.
Very quickly, the young man of 29 years feels annoyance. “I’m just tired. Kayaking can be long, very long and if I’m tired. I can quickly be sensitive and send everything blowing up“, he says to the camera. “At first it was going well but then we quickly found ourselves stuck because of the fairly low water level. I tended to get angry.“
Installed behind Elodie in the kayak, he does not hide his dissatisfaction. “Damn, shitty activity, I swear!“, he launches.what pissed me off. I’m sorry, I didn’t come to Croatia to kayak!“
His wife is, for her part, amazed by the landscape and does not understand her reaction.I was a little uncomfortable because I said to myself: “Why are you sulking? The sets are magnificent. There are worse things like this!“, she says. Too annoyed, Julien then asks for the activity to stop. A behavior that does not please Elodie. “I feel he is selfish in his behavior and his way of being. And that, I do not like at all!“, she confides before adding: “I don’t know if Julien really needs to be in a relationship. He needs his little cuddly moments and his little moments of his own. “
The first doubts appear on Elodie’s side: “I’m afraid that by this behavior, I’ll get tired of him and I don’t want to come to that.“
For the experts, Julien must immediately question himself. “It’s really a defect not to know how to stay zen, not to know how to take advantage of the present moment when you are with someone pleasant in a pleasant environment when there is a little difficulty”, explains the sexologist Catherine Solano. “He engages in self-sabotage, which consists of acting to put himself in check while we are in the process of achieving something that is close to our hearts.continues, as for her, Céline, doctor in psychology. This is often linked to the fear of not being good enough and the fear of failure. It is important for Julien to pull himself together because this kind of attitude can jeopardize the continuation of a budding relationship when the attachment is not yet established.“
Will Elodie and Julien manage to get along despite their very different characters?
