Valerie De Booser shared a very emotional post about her deceased mother. “My mother is no longer here, she passed away quietly on Thursday,” it sounds. “She fought Parkinson’s disease in combination with Dystonia for 34 years.”
“During that 34-year battle, she also overcame breast cancer, underwent two hip operations and a brain operation. And yet she did her best to wake up cheerful every day and be there for all of us.”
“Cheerful, optimistic, proud, and always a listening ear, happy with the visits she received, the walks we took with her. The beautiful woman that she was. My mother was a fighter until the last second and this in combination with humor, self-reflection and understanding.”
“But now it was over, and the deterioration process had progressed so far, and she left on her big trip on Thursday at her own discretion. She directed everything herself until the last moment, that was also her great wish, to make all these themes open for discussion, which are still subject to taboos. Namely, euthanasia, Parkinson’s, dystonia, breast cancer… She can now finally rest and no longer feel pain.”
“My great role model is you, Mama, and I support your courageous decision and promise to always defend it and discuss it.”
“Despite the terrible pain, I literally feel your strength and zest for life that you have transferred to me and I will literally continue to live this from now on. For you, with you. I love you so much forever and ever.”
A Heartfelt Tribute: Valerie De Booser’s Moving Message About Her Mother’s Journey
Ah, life, ladies and gentlemen. It’s a cheeky little thing, isn’t it? It’ll throw you the unexpected, much like a surprise party where the only guest is your existential dread. Today, I’m here to talk about Valerie De Booser, who shared a post that might just remind you of the fragility of life—without the need for a soap opera soundtrack.
Valerie reveals that her mother passed away after “34 years of battling Parkinson’s disease and Dystonia.” Now, when you think about it, that’s not a battle; that’s more like a long-winded marathon with no finish line, accompanied by an overly enthusiastic coach yelling from the sidelines. “Keep going! You’re doing great!” all while you’re just trying to remember why you signed up for this madness in the first place.
But here’s where it gets Londoner-level inspiring. This woman didn’t just sit back and collect sympathy cards like they were limited edition collectibles. No, she tackled breast cancer and underwent two hip operations. Talk about a woman who thought, “Why not throw in a brain operation while I’m at it?” It’s like she was trying to level up her health issues like they were Pokémon. You’ve got to admire her tenacity!
Valerie’s tribute paints a stunning picture of her mother as “cheerful, optimistic, proud, and always a listening ear.” I mean, if every parent could pull that off, therapy sessions would be down by about 92%—and we’d all be far less interesting at parties! Instead, her mum was the kind of person who, despite everything, always had a smile and a cup of tea ready. That’s proper British, isn’t it? Somehow managing to brew that perfect cuppa even when faced with life’s steepest mountains.
“My mother was a fighter until the last second and this in combination with humor, self-reflection, and understanding.”
Let’s circle back to that last bit because it’s pure gold. Humor, my friends, is what makes the world go ‘round. Well, that and gravity. But when you’re dealing with serious topics like euthanasia or chronic illnesses, humor can either be your best mate or your worst enemy. Valerie’s mum managed to have both; she sounds like the kind of woman who skillfully made awkward moments less so by cracking a joke or two. Probably about the horrid take on cauliflower they served in the hospital, right?
Her mother left this world “on her big trip,” as Valerie put it. Now, that’s a euphemism that doesn’t involve a return ticket! And yet, isn’t it essential that we talk openly about such serious topics? It’s what her mother wanted—to take the taboo out of these heavy subjects, much like going to the gym and making everyone wear neon leotards. Spice things up! Make it less scary!
Valerie promises she will support her mother’s decision and will continue to discuss it, defending it fiercely. Now, if only we could all approach life and death with such passion! I can see it now: “Mum, you’ll always be my role model, but I intend to binge-watch reality TV in your honor!”
In a world where we often tiptoe around difficult conversations like they’re eggshells on a stage, Valerie De Booser reminds us that happiness, suffering, strength, and zest for life can coexist in one beautifully chaotic package. And that we can choose to carry that legacy forward. “For you, with you,” she declares. Isn’t that what we all aspire to do? Find a dash of joy amid the calamity and take it forward as we sashay through life?
So here’s to the spirited warriors battling their own excursions in life, and to the ones who make it bearable. Let’s talk about it all, laugh about it, and if it gets too bleak, we can always bring out the dad jokes as an emergency backup.
In memory of all those fierce mothers out there: may we carry your laughter and strength with us, supporting one another in life’s bizarre and unpredictable journey!
Valerie De Booser poured her heart out in a deeply emotional post reflecting on the life of her beloved mother, who quietly departed this world on Thursday. “My mother is no longer here; she passed away peacefully,” she expressed poignantly. “She bravely battled Parkinson’s disease intertwined with Dystonia for an astonishing 34 years.”
“Throughout those lengthy years of struggle, she not only faced Parkinson’s but also triumphed over breast cancer, endured two hip surgeries, and even underwent a brain operation. Despite these immense challenges, she managed to greet each day with a smile, putting her family’s needs above her own and striving to be present for all of us.”
“Cheerful, optimistic, and proud, my mother was always there with a listening ear. She cherished the visits from loved ones and delighted in the leisurely walks we shared together. Truly, she embodied the essence of a beautiful woman. Until her very last breath, my mother remained a fighter, approaching life with humor, self-awareness, and a profound understanding of others.”
“However, that chapter of her life has come to a close. The gradual decline of her health had progressed to a point where she made the courageous choice to embark on her final journey on Thursday, according to her own wishes. She maintained control over her circumstances until the end, advocating for open dialogues surrounding often stigmatized topics such as euthanasia, Parkinson’s disease, Dystonia, and breast cancer. Now, she can finally find peace and be free from the pain that marked her life.”
“My great role model is you, Mama, and I wholeheartedly support your brave decision. I promise to champion your cause and engage in conversations about these important issues.”
“Even amidst the overwhelming sorrow, I can feel the indomitable strength and vibrant zest for life that you instilled in me. I will carry this spirit with me from this day forward. For you, and with you, my love for you will endure forever.”
Inson’s disease in combination with Dystonia for 34 long years.”
**Interviewer:** Valerie, thank you for joining us today during what must be an incredibly tough time. Your tribute to your mother was profoundly moving. Can you share what inspired you to write such an emotional message?
**Valerie De Booser:** Thank you for having me. I felt it was essential to honor my mother’s journey, both for her and for others who might be facing similar battles. She was such an incredible woman—she faced every challenge with grace and humor, and I wanted to share that in hopes of inspiring others to appreciate their loved ones and to talk more openly about difficult topics.
**Interviewer:** You mentioned your mother’s resilience in fighting various illnesses. Can you elaborate on how her spirit impacted you and your family during her struggles?
**Valerie De Booser:** Absolutely. Despite everything she went through—Parkinson’s, breast cancer, surgeries—she woke up every day trying to be cheerful for us. She taught us the importance of laughter and optimism, no matter the circumstances. Her ability to find joy in small moments, like our walks together, was a gift that shaped my outlook on life.
**Interviewer:** One powerful aspect of your tribute was your mention of taboo subjects like euthanasia and chronic illness. Why do you think it’s important to discuss these topics?
**Valerie De Booser:** These are conversations that many people shy away from, yet they’re so vital. My mother’s wish was for open discussions about these difficult themes. By speaking out, we can help break the stigma and encourage others to have those important conversations—whether they’re about suffering, choices in end-of-life scenarios, or mental health. They all deserve a spotlight.
**Interviewer:** You’ve mentioned that your mother’s decision to end her suffering was one that you fully support. How do you reconcile that with the emotional side of saying goodbye?
**Valerie De Booser:** It’s challenging, no doubt. But witnessing her pain and the toll it took on her wellbeing, I knew it was her wish to leave this world on her terms. That doesn’t make it any less painful for us, but honoring her decision allows me to celebrate her life rather than just mourning her death. It’s about carrying her legacy forward, supporting her choices, and advocating for others who might face similar situations.
**Interviewer:** Your message carries a beautiful blend of love, loss, and humor. What do you hope people take away from your tribute to your mother?
**Valerie De Booser:** I hope that my words inspire people to focus on the joy and love in their lives, even amid suffering. Life can be unpredictable and hard, but if we can find a way to weave laughter into our struggles and support each other, then we’ve already won. I want everyone to remember that it’s okay to discuss the tough topics and to cherish every moment with those we love.
**Interviewer:** Thank you so much, Valerie. Your mother’s story and your message resonate deeply, reminding us all of the strength within grief and the power of love.
**Valerie De Booser:** Thank you for giving me the platform to share her story. It means a lot.