IN a circle of friends, in order to get lots of friends, a number of people try to become someone who is liked by many people, in order to be accepted at something circle.
This can make someone not be themselves as they are. Apart from that, pretending will actually be psychologically tiring and end up being unhappy.
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Singer Vidi Aldiano is known as a figure with circle Widely among celebrities expresses the importance of being yourself in friendships. “I think just be yourself and surround yourself with people who really make you comfortable,” he said, when met by Media Indonesia at The Langham Fashion Soiree, Jakarta, which was held at The Langham, Jakarta, Central Jakarta on Tuesday (2/ 10).
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“Because if you are comfortable, you will automatically behave very, very positively and honestly, instead of being tired of pretending, right,” continued the husband of actress Sheila Dara Aisha.
Furthermore, the man who is nicknamed the Wedding Ambassador by netizens because he is almost always invited to every celebrity wedding emphasized that by being ourselves, we will find suitable people as friends.
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On the other hand, he reminded us not to worry about the number of friends. “For example, if you have a few friends but they seem meaningful, I think quality over quantities. So you don’t need too many,” explained Vidi.
If you are an introvert and don’t have many friends, that’s okay as long as you are happy. “My wife is an introvert, she doesn’t have too many friends but she’s just happy,” concluded Vidi. (M-1)
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The Importance of Authenticity in Friendships: Vidi Aldiano’s Take
In recent years, the concept of authenticity has become a topic of discussion in various spheres, including friendships. The idea of being true to oneself and embracing one’s uniqueness has been echoed by many, including Indonesian singer Vidi Aldiano. In a recent interview with Media Indonesia, Vidi emphasized the significance of being oneself in friendships, highlighting the psychological and emotional benefits of authenticity.
Vidi’s statement resonates with the sentiment that many people try to conform to societal norms or expectations in order to be accepted by others. This can lead to a sense of disauthenticity, where individuals compromise their true selves to fit in. However, as Vidi astutely pointed out, this approach can be psychologically tiring and ultimately lead to unhappiness.
The singer’s comments are particularly relevant in today’s social media culture, where people often present curated versions of themselves online. This can create unrealistic expectations and pressure to conform to certain standards. Vidi’s message encourages individuals to resist this pressure and instead focus on being their authentic selves.
Vidi’s own life experiences and career trajectory demonstrate the value of authenticity. Having returned to his homeland in 2015, Vidi has continued to pursue his passion for music, releasing singles such as “Membiasakan Cinta,” which was dedicated to friends living with HIV/AIDS [[1]]. This commitment to using his platform for good reflects his genuine nature and dedication to his craft.
Interestingly, Vidi’s comments on the importance of being oneself in friendships are echoed in his own interactions with fans. In a recent incident, Vidi was left asleep in a cinema by his friend, only to be woken up by an officer [[3]]. This lighthearted anecdote showcases Vidi’s down-to-earth personality and willingness to poke fun at himself, demonstrating that authenticity can be both empowering and entertaining.
Vidi Aldiano’s emphasis on the importance of being oneself in friendships is a timely reminder of the value of authenticity in our relationships. By embracing our true selves and surrounding ourselves with people who accept us for who we are, we can cultivate more meaningful and fulfilling friendships. As Vidi so aptly put it, “just be yourself and surround yourself with people who really make you comfortable.”
References:
[[1]]https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Vidi_Aldiano
[[2]]https://www.dreamstime.com/semarang-indonesia-august-indonesian-singer-vidi-aldiano-singing-front-new-students-young-diponegoro-orientation-image274724101
[[3]]https://en.dream.co.id/showbiz/hilarious-falling-asleep-in-the-cinema-and-left-behind-by-his-friend-vidi-aldiano-is-shocked-to-be-woken-up-by-the-officer-110301-mvk.html
