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Entered 2023.10.09 18:30 Views 2,163 Entered 2023.10.09 18:30 Modified 2023.10.09 17:13 Views 2,163 Unlike extroverts who usually actively express their feelings and woo others, introverts love in a completely different way. Deliver. [사진=클립아트코리아]
These days, for the MZ generation, MBTI has become an absolute judgment standard, almost like blood type. Check each other’s MBTI and try to understand each other’s tendencies. However, the most basic question in judging personality is whether one is introverted or extroverted. Unlike extroverts, who usually actively express their feelings and woo others, introverts convey love in a completely different way. Think deeply before expressing your feelings, and choose a more cautious approach when conveying your thoughts.
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◆ Focus on a small number of people similar to yourself
Introverts tend to hang out with people who are considered similar to them. In other words, it means being close to a small number of people with whom you have a lot in common. While extroverts build friendships with a variety of people, introverts focus on people who have similar aspects to themselves. Their sociability is lower than that of extroverts, but the energy and sincerity they devote to close people is greater.
◆ Listen to what the other person says rather than talking
Introverts prefer to think to themselves rather than expressing their thoughts outwardly. As a result, more time is spent listening to other people’s stories rather than expressing one’s own opinions. Do not redirect the conversation to focus on yourself and do not give hasty advice. Because of this habit of listening to other people, we learn more regarding them and their inner thoughts. This means that your understanding of other people increases.
◆ Express affection through actions rather than words
Introverts are not good at saying sweet and strange things because they are shy. However, there is a high probability that he will be a practitioner who personally visits the company to ensure the safe return home of his lover who works late into the night. Express love through actions rather than words.
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◆ Think carefully rather than enjoy the present
Introverts don’t pursue carpe diem. Carpe diem means enjoying the moment. Extroverts tend to focus on the present and enjoy the moment, while introverts tend to think carefully before enjoying themselves. Rather than making immediate decisions, time is needed to build a strong mental foundation. Even when a problem arises with a lover, there is a tendency to think carefully and improve the relationship rather than trying to resolve it immediately.
◆ Constant self-censorship and admission of mistakes
Introverts constantly self-censor and make decisions following careful consideration. When a problem arises with the other person, before blaming the other person, check once more to make sure there was no problem yourself. There is a tendency to admit one’s mistakes and respect the opinions of others.
◆ Preference for alone time, lack of jealousy
Introverts prefer spending time alone. We respect the privacy of others because we understand the importance of personal time. It means that you know very well that your lover needs not only time with you, but also time alone or with other friends. This is why you don’t feel jealous or interfere when your lover is surrounded by other people.
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