I don’t know how the sisters get married, but for me, following 2 years, I still feel that the decision to get married is the right one. Honestly, as long as the mother-in-law is good, it doesn’t matter far or near. Here I am a prime example.
My parents gave birth to 3 children, only I was a girl. From childhood to adulthood, my mother told me not to get married in the future. Because around me, girls who get married far away are having a hard time. But the love story, no one can say in advance. My first love is right next door. After knowing each other for a while, the two broke up.
The same goes for a few relationships following that. For the last time, I close my eyes and love a man far away. At first, I thought we should just fall in love because we were determined to each other. After that, the more I fell in love, the more I found the two of them compatible. And the lover’s mother is also easygoing. Before, at home, I didn’t know what to do. When I debuted at my lover’s house, I mightn’t finish it thanks to every single fried spring roll. Nem is big and small, so while frying, I have a phone, I was busy trading with friends, so I forgot to flip it. That’s how it turns into the darkness of the night, sisters.
I thought my lover’s mother would deduct my points for that. Unexpectedly, she laughed and said:
“Well, today we have something to eat at home. These days, when I go to eat at the table a lot, I’m tired of spring rolls.”
After that, I also came back a few more times. Seeing my lover’s mother close, I decided to ask my parents for a wedding. Talking regarding this is also very difficult, sisters. Because at first, my parents decided not to coh. My mother was still crying and said:
“There is only one daughter who now wants to get married far away. Do you want your parents to live? If you love yourself and love your parents, think once more, if not, my mother will show you.”
My father is calmer. However, he also did not support the idea of marrying children away from 300km. That day, it was only the two of us, my father sat down to talk and then asked from the beginning to the end to see what kind of person he wanted to marry, his family, and his parents. Finally, my father sighed:
“If you have made up your mind like that, then your parents can’t just stop you. I bring him here, let him talk regarding it. Until then, parents will decide.”
Luckily the launch went well. That’s why our wedding was officially celebrated. Even so, my mother is still very worried. Her daughter got married, but a few days later, she texted her asking if she had caused any problems at her husband’s house. If yes, do not hide it from parents.
Last year was the first year I celebrated Tet at my husband’s house. My parents also keep their mind on the family. As a result, grandparents wanted their children to come home to celebrate Tet, but they still told them to stay at their husband’s house to eat Tet to the fullest. Whenever it’s Tet, it’s okay to come back later. But my mother-in-law does not agree. Knowing that we just returned on the 4th, she brushed it off:
“I think you eat here on the 1st and then drive back to Grandma’s house on the 2nd. Just stay there for a few days. Who let the 4th come back like that, what else is Tet? This year is my first year to get married, if I don’t come back, the grandparents there will be very sad.”
When I heard my mother-in-law say that, I was moved to tears. Then, every now and then, we would go back to our mother’s house to play. Fortunately, my wife and I do business, we both have our own cars, so traveling is very simple. My mother-in-law is also psychological, every month she has not seen her children visit the birth house, she urges her once more.
This year has been a sad year for my family. When in the middle of last year, my father-in-law suddenly passed away from a heart attack. Because I only have my mother-in-law, I decided to celebrate Tet with her, and I didn’t return home until the 3rd. My parents also completely agree.
Yesterday, I celebrated my mother-in-law’s age of 5 million to spend Tet to encourage her spirit. However, my mother-in-law does not accept sisters. She just held my hand and said:
“I should have gone home to prepare for Tet with my grandparents over there. But this year, my house is like this, I also want to have my children with me for comfort. I keep this money, save it for Tet for my mother. It’s okay if you accept my heart.”
When my mother-in-law said that, I was close to the ground, sisters. Who said it’s hard to get married far away? As for me, taking it far or near doesn’t matter. The main thing is whether the man I married and the mother-in-law has psychology or not. Like me, for example, it’s known to be married far away, but I don’t have any feelings regarding being separated from my parents. So in the future, when choosing a husband, please be sober. Don’t miss the good man of your life because of geographical distance!
