The True Cost of Marrying a High-Income Engineer: Debunking Marriage Requirements for Financially-Driven Relationships

2023-07-20 03:46:11

Writer Xia Xue shared that an engineer with an annual income of 6 million was looking for marriage. The conditions did not seem difficult, but following careful analysis, it felt more like looking for a maid than looking for a partner. (Picture/schematic diagram, flipped from pixabay)

When many women are looking for a partner, they often list the income of their future husband as one of the important evaluation points, but marrying a husband who can make money means that the married life will be happy, and there is no need to worry regarding money anymore? Writer Xia Xue recently shared on the program “News Digging Wow” that she saw an engineer whose annual income was as high as 6 million. The conditions for marriage proposal seemed very simple. She only asked the future wife to concentrate on taking care of the family, children, and husband. She also gave the wife 20,000 pocket money every month, and all the expenses of the family were “reimbursable.” As a result, such a marriage requirement was overturned by the female guests present, including gender writer Xin Xiya and marketing consultant Chen Peizhen. They were filled with righteous indignation and said, “20,000 yuan, what a joke, I paid for it and sold myself”, “The cost of outsourcing these housework is only 20,000 yuan, and there is no labor and health insurance.”

Writer Xia Xue shared the special marriage requirements of an engineer with an annual income of 6 million. She mentioned that the other party’s requirements for a future wife are very simple at first glance. For example, there is no requirement for the appearance of the other half. As for the family planning following marriage, he hopes that his future wife will preferably have 1 or 2 children; if his wife does not earn a high salary, he hopes that his wife will simply stay at home and concentrate on taking care of the children.

The engineer kept emphasizing that his work was very busy and his working hours were very long, so in addition to hoping that his other half might concentrate on housework and taking care of the children at home, he also asked his future wife that he didn’t want to know what to cook every day. In addition, the engineer said that because he was very tired from work, he hoped that his future wife would not ask her husband to accompany the children following get off work, take the children out to play, etc.; and hoped that his wife would give him a massage sometimes, “because human hand massage is more comfortable.”

In addition, the engineer also stated that he usually has a smoking habit, so if his future wife has problems such as tracheal allergies, he emphasized that “I will not quit smoking.” At most, I can smoke on the balcony or other open and ventilated places for the sake of my wife and children. “This is his biggest concession.”

In response to the high-paid engineer’s marriage requirements, the host Zheng Hongyi said that the engineer’s marriage requirements sounded very simple at first glance, that is, the wife should take good care of the family, children, and husband. As a result, female celebrities and guests, including sex expert Xin Xiya and marketing consultant Chen Peizhen, criticized collectively, “20,000 yuan, what a joke, I paid for it, and sold myself”, “I don’t have labor and health insurance yet.”

Xin Xiya mentioned that many men think that they are qualified to call their wives because of their high annual salary. However, she believes that if a man with a high salary wants to marry a wife, he must at least realize that the salary conditions given to his wife today are to allow his wife to have the means to outsource the housework that he hopes to do well to other professionals.

Chen Peizhen also mentioned that this engineer has an annual salary of 6 million. At first glance, it seems that the conditions are very good, but she is very curious. The man earns such a salary and wants to enjoy it with his wife. The benefits extended by this high salary, or the other party just wants a wife to be a tool person to help with the outsourcing of housework. The two have different meanings.

Chen Peizhen pointed out that if the other half has a high salary, but will not pay it to the wife, as the wife’s contribution to the marriage and the family, she only gets the right to use, but not ownership. Once the marriage breaks down and divorces, it will be very insecure for the woman. What’s more, the housework that the engineer ordered, all added up to hire a professional person to do it, the required price has long exceeded the 20,000 yuan allowance given to the wife every month. “Even if the husband’s annual salary is 6 million, he does not love you enough, and it is completely meaningless.”

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