Foreign marriages are most afraid of encountering cultural problems, but a Russian bride who is regarding to marry in Heilongjiang recently received a RMB 20,000 (approximately NT$90,000) gift from her prospective mother-in-law when she accompanied her partner back to her hometown. The gold jewelry moved her to tears on the spot, and the woman’s next words made netizens feel distressed.
According to “Sina Hot Spots”, the woman recently came to Heilongjiang from Russia with her fiancé to visit her in-law’s house. She only saw her son’s mother-in-law once in a few years. It is customary for the man’s family to give three pieces of gold (necklace, earrings, ring or bracelet), and he takes his family to a gold jewelry shop to pick up three pieces of gold.
A woman who has never heard of this kind of custom was surprised and resisted when her mother-in-law wanted to give her gold jewelry. As soon as she stepped into the gold jewelry store, she asked her fiancé to convey “I don’t need it” in Russian. When she learned that her mother-in-law helped her choose a When I received a 20,000 yuan piece of gold jewelry, I opened my eyes wide in fright and exclaimed: “180,000 rubles!? (converted by fiance)” Then moved to tears and said: “No one has ever been so kind to me and gave me such a gift .”, and insisting on not spending her mother-in-law’s money. In the end, the two sides compromised, and the woman exchanged the cheapest gold jewelry, bought a necklace, and returned to her husband’s house with her fiance.
After the video was exposed, netizens were moved and said, “A really good in-laws and girl, you should treat her well”, “Those who love you are afraid of not giving enough, and those who don’t love you are afraid that you will ask for too much.” Some people said reluctantly, “She said that no one treated her so well, it really hurts.” However, some netizens disagreed and said, “Does it imply that domestic fairies are ignorant?”