2023-04-26 04:58:00
After a period of “famous” on social networking platforms, public opinion might not help but be curious regarding the life of the newly married young man who became “father-in-law, grandfather”. Many people also ask the question of whether a “skewed chopsticks” marriage is sustainable when a guy under 30 has to be the father of 6 children, the grandfather of one child? Will he overcome society’s prejudices when he marries a widowed woman?
Searching for village 3, Phuoc Tra commune (Hiep Duc, Quang Nam) to inquire regarding the situation of the couple “deviated chopsticks” and suddenly received the answer: “Everyone has gone their separate ways”. That surprised many people because a few months ago Hoang (28 years old) – the youngest “grandfather” in Vietnam, swore that the sea would always be by his side to take care of and love Ms. Sanh (38 years old). – a widow with 5 biological children, a daughter-in-law and a grandson.
To clarify everything, a YouTuber came to see Ms. Sanh to see what the rumors were true of people in the commune. When she met her, she was holding her youngest child in a hammock with a lost and sad expression. She said: “This is my daughter with Mr. Hoang. I’m one year old, starting to walk and babble. I’m cute and pretty.
Sanh held her youngest daughter and confided everything in the past.
Last time, I had fever, cough and diarrhea for several days. I regret not taking the money to the hospital for examination and treatment by folk methods. I don’t think the disease will go away forever, even people will faint. In the end, I had to collect money in the house, get 100,000 VND to take him to the hospital for treatment.”
At that time, Hoang went to the hospital to take care of his daughter for 2 nights. Then he told his wife that he went back to his hometown to beg for money to pay for his daughter’s hospital bills. He went to his mother-in-law to ask for a loan of 1 million dong and then brought it down for Sanh to take care of.
“Seeing that his wife and children were so miserable, he told me that he had to go to the city to find a job to earn money to take care of his daughter. He advised me to stay at home to take care of my health, take care of the little ones and frequently ask regarding the older couple.
He also told me that my mother and I were here to take care of our youngest grandchild, not needing many people to take care of them. I saw that he had a point, so I agreed to let him find a job. However, I did not expect at that moment that I had lost my husband … “, Ms. Sanh recalled.
Hoang went away for a while without a call to ask how his daughter was doing. Sanh was impatient, afraid that something would happen to her husband, so she called. Unexpectedly, he was ready to say that he was going to work, when he had money, he would return.
Sanh and her young husband.
At this time, the couple’s daughter was healthy, Ms. Sang asked to leave the hospital for her child to go home and informed her young husband of the news. “I got home one night to visit my daughter and then went on once more. If I ask, I can’t take much time off work, I will be fired. It’s been almost 4 months now!
I heard people told him to go to Saigon and live with a woman over 2 years old. He called to visit, saying that he missed his son very much and wanted to meet him. I disagree. I trusted him like that, but betrayed him like that. I really mightn’t believe I was in a situation like this,” said Sang tearfully.
Currently, Ms. Sang has to take care of her young children. She does enough jobs to make a living, such as a maidservant, planting trees for rent or collecting latex for people with a salary of several hundred thousand per day. But this job is not stable, tomorrow will not make the miserable life even more extreme.
“Knowing what to do now, I have to accept it. Fortunately, the children understand the situation, love their mother, so they can help with housework, take care of their siblings and help their mother. I love them so much, I just hope to have money so that they can have good food and go to school, “said Ms. Sang.
Sang widowed a year ago, has 6 children (including biological children, daughter-in-law) and a grandchild. She is the one who actively flirts with Hoang. She once said that she happened to see a clip of Hoang walking from Saigon to the Central region on social networks, so she texted to get acquainted. Then she called to “seduce” him to come to the village to play. No wonder he came to see her immediately.
After that, the two fell in love with each other and decided to move in together. At that time, the Hoang family tried their best to forbid, not accept that the newlyweds married a widow who had become a grandmother. But he defied everything to come to the woman he loved. “Grandma loves me so she accepted this marriage. She told me that if I made a choice, I had to face it, no matter what difficulties I had, I mightn’t complain or resent it. In the end, I did not let her down,” the 28-year-old once shared.
Some time later, the happy couple welcomed a baby daughter, together taking care of the whole family even though life was very difficult. Hoang even promised to stay with Sanh and her children until their teeth turned white.
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