2023-11-04 06:02:00
Trang and Nam got married following being together for three years. On the first day, she and her husband returned to the boarding house without spending a night at his house. This made her husband’s parents unhappy. Trang knew this, but she thought she had clearly agreed on this before getting married, so she didn’t need to think too much.
Every weekend the two of them would come back to eat with their grandparents and brother and his wife. Nam has been pampered since childhood and did not have to do any hard work. When he went to work, his parents also received a lot of economic support. However, one thing she always disliked regarding her husband was that in front of others he was very skillful and appeared to be a hard-working person.
The husband is dishonest
Many times when he came home to eat on the weekends, Nam would compete with her to wash the dishes. This makes the mother-in-law very hot.
Those times, even my father-in-law was not very happy. Both of them think that cooking is for women. As a wife, you must know how to take care of your husband, take care of the housework, and not let your husband have to touch the kitchen or clean up following meals.
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Her husband works freelance. In the past year, his work has been difficult, so he often stays at home. Besides working, he spends all night playing games. The two of them argued loudly with each other many times regarding this issue.
Trang was originally an office worker with a moderate salary. She has to earn extra money with another job to be able to pay the monthly fees.
Every time she comes home from work, Trang is busy in the kitchen. There are days when she finishes cleaning everything at 11 o’clock at night. She didn’t even have time to take care of herself.
More than once, she reminded her husband that when he comes home to eat with his parents, he should not compete with her to wash the dishes. This makes her parents unhappy, and over time they will lose sympathy for her.
But Nam immediately told her: “Because I just want to quickly finish everything and go home, I don’t like staying long.”
Trang saw her husband say that, disagreed and replied: “These are my parents, following all, they only come back to eat with them on the weekend, so staying and chatting for a while won’t cost anything.”
Trang said that but might not convince her husband, her husband added another sentence: “Listening to dogmas all day is tiring.”
Every time her husband’s parents said something cool to her, Trang would laugh it off and hold back. Until last week, Trang mightn’t be patient any longer. She got angry following being criticized for often forcing her husband to clean up following meals at home.
This time, she was busy and came home late, only arriving at her husband’s parents’ house at 8 p.m. Trang was exhausted because she was on her “red light” period but still went to the kitchen to cook rice for the whole family to eat. After the meal, she seemed unable to stay awake to talk to her husband’s parents any more.
The bride was angry
She wanted to quickly clean up and then ask permission to go home to rest. When she saw her son approaching her to help her wash the dishes, her mother-in-law said: “Your husband has worked hard all day, so let him rest a lot to gain strength, don’t force him to cook and then have to clean up once more.” . There is no such routine in this house.”
At this time, Trang felt extreme self-pity. She mightn’t bear it anymore and said: “Shame on you, I shouldn’t have said it but I really mightn’t stand it anymore. During the past three years together, Nam has never once cooked or washed the dishes for his children. Only when he comes home to his parents does he show that he knows how to share with his wife like that. If he had helped me a little like that at home, I would have felt very grateful.”
After seeing his wife’s frustration, Nam laughed and said: “At home, I still help you often, you’re exaggerating.”
Trang was so upset that she mightn’t stand it, why did she marry such an dishonest husband? When he’s with her he talks one way, but when there’s someone else he shows a completely different side.
After she was so upset, her mother-in-law still didn’t seem to believe what she said, even thinking that Trang was making up stories to defame her son.
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She stood up, unable to accept a husband who lacked honesty from such a small thing. She asked permission to leave and said: “My husband rushed to wash the dishes like that because he wanted to quickly finish his work and return as soon as possible. He didn’t want to stay home for too long. Maybe you don’t believe me, but I don’t want to explain this dishonesty anymore.”
Having finished speaking, she bowed, turned and walked out of the house, not even looking at her husband once.
Although this is just a small thing, it greatly affects her married life. Trang did not want to endure for things that were not worth it. She thought that her patience would make the family atmosphere more peaceful. But she was wrong, patience in marriage does not mean having to live with dishonesty.
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