Xiaoman. (Picture / Retrieved from Facebook / Xiaoman Wang Chengyan)
The 33-year-old actress Xiaoman (Wang Chengyan) and Shao Xiang have been dating for 7 years. They announced their marriage in March 2020 and gave birth to a son, “Supreme Treasure”. After becoming a new parent, they often share their family life through the Internet. Recently, the local epidemic situation has been severe, and many mothers have declined their elders to kiss and hold their children, only to be scolded by their elders instead. Xiaoman mightn’t help but shoot, “I tell you, it’s that serious.”
Xiaoman revealed that only now did he know that the pressure of being a mother is not only affected by hormones, but also the depression caused by traditional and secular concepts, including the conflict between old and new concepts, the conflict between family authority and modern medicine, and new mothers often have to face it alone. All these overwhelming pressures and many factors combine to make mothers feel extremely depressed, thus forming postpartum depression.
During the epidemic, many mothers were so tense that they mightn’t breathe, but elders would always ask “Why can’t I kiss?”, “This is my grandson and I can’t hug it?” “The smell of smoke has long disappeared, why can’t I hold it”, “How can it be so serious”.
To this, Xiaoman said helplessly, “Apart from the parents, who hurt the brain following kissing the baby today, and the baby’s face rotted with herpes virus?” And the child really had a problem, and it was the parents who were exhausted.
Hearing that many juniors dare not speak out, Xiao Man is dissatisfied, “I really just want to help you mummies to shout to their mothers and mothers-in-law! Why do women make trouble for women? Haven’t you ever been a daughter-in-law? If you don’t like being treated like this , then why are you embarrassing your daughter-in-law? I realized that all the pressure really comes from the outside world, “in the name of love”.” She wanted to help the mothers of this generation to express their deepest feelings, and also hoped to give all this era The strength of the mother, the mothers, come on.