After a period of love, Van (character name has been changed), 25 years old, living in Hanoi decided to live with his girlfriend.
However, the dream life of the young couple soon collapsed just because Van encountered the problem of “above told the bottom did not listen”.
According to Van’s share, being under the same roof all day and night, premarital sex is inevitable.
The conditions are comfortable, the psychology of both sides has no barriers, but every time he is “in battle” with him, it is as hard as conquering Fansipan peak.
Many young people who have problems above say they do not listen (Photo: Getty).
Because, although in the foreplay, the “little boy” “saluting the flag”, but when he entered the main stage, the “gun” might not “load”.
Many times like that, the guy was extremely embarrassed and thought that his girlfriend must be depressed, so he had to use an excuse to break up because he was not confident enough to bring happiness to that girl.
Van is a case recently examined by Dr. Phan Chi Thanh – Chief of the Office of the Training and Directing Center, Central Obstetrics and Gynecology Hospital.
According to this expert, in Vietnam, the perfect sex life depends a lot on the gentleman’s bravery. However, because of that point of view, men are under great pressure when having erectile dysfunction problems.
This expert cites another case, that is, two young people have been in love for a while and the problem occurs when both decide to take a step forward.
Because it was the first time for both of them, it was very confusing. The boyfriend that day prepared a “raincoat” for activities, but the two of you searched forever but mightn’t go. The boyfriend at that time was embarrassed because he thought he was a boy and had to know how to use it.
Dr. Phan Chi Thanh – Chief of Office of the Training and Directing Center, National Hospital of Obstetrics and Gynecology (Photo: MN).
However, following struggling for a long time, he suddenly saw the “boy” falling down, making him extremely embarrassed. Right following that “fated” day, the boyfriend came back to read and research the internet and then thought that he was not well prepared, did not know how to use the “raincoat”, so such a situation happened.
The next day, the two of you tried once more, this time just picking up the condom, the “little guy” went down, making him embarrassed and extremely self-deprecating.
“When we performed the examination and testing of all reproductive functions, we found that this boyfriend is completely healthy with no problems. The problem comes from the patient’s own psychology,” said Dr. Thanh. .
According to Dr. Thanh, the fact that the “little boy” has an erection very quickly when stimulated, but soon faints and has difficulty getting an erection once more, even though he has used all kinds of “seduce” methods, is one of the conditions in the group of erectile dysfunction. . This is a common disease, but it is a sensitive issue for men.
Dr. Thanh shared: “Psychological erectile dysfunction is very common in young men who have not experienced sex.” active or not should create an obsession, leading to erectile dysfunction.”
To overcome the situation of “above telling, below not listening”, Dr. Thanh reminds men to go to reputable medical facilities to find out the cause and get appropriate treatment advice.
“Men should also not be afraid to look for medicines of unknown origin, untested or self-medicated according to folk methods, online instructions that can make money lose their disability, even cause unpredictable consequences,” the doctor warned.
Besides, according to Dr. Thanh, please release your body from anxiety and pressure on how to “pin the reins”, fight with the most comfortable spirit and it is important to real excitement.
