When raising children, everyone wants their children to be healthy and develop well with age. However, each baby has a different body, so the absorption of nutrients is also different through each stage. Criticizing a certain baby as “snobby” or “fat” not only accidentally hurts the baby but also the parents. Recently, Ms. Le Thi Ha Phuong (28 years old, living in Hai Phong) shared her story when her child was criticized for her appearance.
The baby was hurt because he was criticized for “whistle-blowing”
– “Oh the whistle guy!”.
Yesterday, a neighbor stopped by, raised his hand to pick it up, and laughed and teased Tien like that. I always said once more: “I’m not horny, I’m normal, don’t say that, I’m sad!”, at the same time, Tien also pushed her hand away to prevent her from touching her son anymore.
– On the 3rd day of the Lunar New Year, my whole family went to the temple, met my husband’s friend there, and as soon as I saw Tien, I uttered the sentence: “Looks like a whistle!”, the first time I laughed and laughed. Go to the temple, burn incense and pay homage to the Buddha, come out and point at the boy and say: “Very whistle!”, I said directly: “I don’t have a whistle, don’t say that in front of me anymore”.
Since having a child, I have become an unpleasant, fierce mother with sayings called “just kidding, what’s so terrible regarding it”.
I don’t want to talk regarding weight anymore, because I know that no matter what they say, they want to believe what they believe.
Phuong’s son.
Your baby may not be as chubby as other babies of the same month, but he’s still growing normally compared to his own growth chart. Children have even more outstanding indicators such as cognitive development or social and emotional development. You don’t have to look at the appearance to judge whether a child is growing well, healthy or not, as most people often point and evaluate.
