Note:
– Absolutely do not ask the teacher or arbitrarily storm into your child’s class to force you to play with your child. This will not only make you hate your child more, but it will also make them very embarrassed. This is what children hate most regarding adults.
– Help outside, do not complain, force children to make friends. I was scared even more afraid, later on I hate going to school.
Here are things parents should do to teach their children how to deal with isolation.
Listen to me
Every child can have a bad day because of the little things they don’t like. Maybe it’s a small argument or a toy your child doesn’t have. This can easily make your child angry and vent his anger as soon as he gets home with extremely negative statements.
Acknowledge your child’s feelings
When you listen to your child, empathize and acknowledge the feelings he or she is experiencing. Let your child know that you understand what he or she is going through and that you are here to listen to it with your child.
Ask open-ended questions
As you listen and talk to your child, don’t forget to ask open-ended questions so that they can more easily talk regarding things that are difficult for them to say. For example: Why do you think that?
Let your child decide what to do
As the conversation begins to open up more clearly, parents and children can come together to come up with the causes and solutions for the situation that the child is experiencing. Whether things are small or big, simple or complicated, parents always have to let their children decide what they will do.
Assess your child’s social skills
After working with their children through crises of isolation, parents will be able to accurately assess the social skills their children have. If your child is shy, afraid to communicate, share or is too assertive, he may also fall into a situation where he has few friends to play with.
According to Vietnamese Women
