The wife said that the eldest aunt had an affair with her best friend’s ex-husband. (Schematic / Pexels)
Recently, a wife said that her eldest aunt had an affair with her best friend’s ex-husband, and now she was about to divorce, but her mother-in-law cried and begged her to help raise the child, because she loved the child very much, “Mother-in-law, are you crazy? What responsibility do we have to raise the child?” They? It’s not your daughter who made the mess for us.”
The original PO recently posted on the Facebook group“Anonymous Commune”The post said, “A few days ago, my mother-in-law told me that my aunt had an affair, and she didn’t know what to do. The person she was having an affair with was her best friend’s ex-husband. She felt very humiliated. So let’s forget about the affair, and she even had an ex-husband of someone she knew. , now they are making a fuss about getting a divorce, and she doesn’t want a boy or a girl, and she also feels sorry for her grandson, so I need to find a way.”
The original PO said, what can she do as a daughter-in-law, the eldest aunt is not young, and she has to bear the problem by herself, “I can only comfort her, the children and grandchildren have their own blessings.” Unexpectedly, the mother-in-law asked, are you willing to help raise them Aunt’s child? Because you also watched them grow up and love children very much. Yuan PO was dumbfounded, “Mother-in-law, are you crazy? What responsibility do we have to support them? Didn’t your daughter leave the mess to us? I politely refused, saying that the economy does not allow it, and the biological parents are both alone. Yi.” The mother-in-law said that if she is willing to support her, she will take out her pension.
Yuan PO sighed that she would not take this responsibility, and her husband also objected, “But my mother-in-law cried to us every day, saying that we were cruel, and my own nephew didn’t care. I have been crying for a week, and my aunt is gone. Now the children are all living in the house that my husband and I bought (my mother-in-law lives with us), so I really have a headache.”
As soon as this article came out, netizens commented, “I’ve heard that it’s also a divorce. The 3 daughters lost their husband’s house. Grandma Gu is in her 90s. In the end, she had no choice but to rely on relatives for help”, “Help call the social bureau for resettlement. “, “Let’s help two children fight abandonment and custody lawsuits! The principle must be that one of the biological parents is the guardian”, “I also encountered this kind of thing. My brother-in-law and brother-in-law are both married, and my mother-in-law has been with them from the beginning. My wife said that we might be asked to help raise and take care of my brother-in-law’s children, but I kept refusing, not because I was cold-blooded, but because our husband and wife were not responsible, and we had two children to raise.”