Love’s Early Bird Special: Ted Danson and Mary Steenburgen‘s Secret to 30 Years
Veteran Hollywood stars Ted Danson and Mary Steenburgen have built a love story that’s touched the hearts of many. After three decades together, they’ve uncovered the secret ingredient to keeping their relationship vibrant — it all starts before the sun rises.
At 76, Danson embraces the mature stages of their romance, wryly noting, “At my age, date nights are more likely to be date early bird specials.” But while they surely still enjoy a night out, it’s those quiet mornings that truly hold the magic for this couple.
Danson recently revealed that their mornings together are truly special: “The most fun are the mornings, coffee in bed at 4:30 a.m., playing games like Wordle and talking, laughing and sharing. That is heaven on earth for us.”
Their routine speaks volumes about their enduring connection. Even with hectic schedules that come with successful acting careers, they make it a priority to connect over coffee and conversation, sometimes bridging time zones to share these precious moments.
“Even if she’s in a different time zone, we get up for coffee, games and conversation,” Danson shared.
This dedication isn’t a stroke of luck, but rather the fruit of hard work and life experience. Both Danson and Steenburgen entered their relationship later in life, bringing with them wisdom and lessons learned from previous marriages.
Danson believes this shared history plays a crucial role in the strength of their bond. “I determined that I would be a better person, honest and emotionally accessible,” Danson explained. “I don’t think I would have had a chance with Mary otherwise.”
Their commitment is undeniable, and it resonates through their interactions, both on and off screen. A glimpse into their chemistry can be found in a Team Coco YouTube video, where they showcase their easy banter and playful affection. Fans flooded the comments, marveling at how undeniably smitten they remain after all these years.
Theirs is a love story that proves that true connection can blossom at any age and thrive through dedication, communication, and a shared appreciation for the quiet magic of early mornings.
What are some practical tips for creating meaningful “early bird” dates like Ted Danson and Mary Steenburgen?
## Love’s Early Bird Special: Ted Danson and Mary Steenburgen’s Secret to 30 Years
**Host:** Welcome back to the show! Today, we’re delving into the heartwarming love story of Hollywood icons Ted Danson and Mary Steenburgen, who are celebrating a remarkable 30 years together.
Joining us to discuss their enduring romance and the secret to their longevity is relationship expert, Dr. Emily Carter. Welcome, Dr. Carter!
**Dr. Carter:** Thank you for having me!
**Host:** We all know Ted and Mary are a beloved couple. What strikes you most about their enduring love story, Dr. Carter?
**Dr. Carter:** Well, what’s truly remarkable is their openness about the evolving nature of their relationship. After 30 years, they’ve discovered that “date nights” don’t always involve fancy dinners and late nights. In fact, Ted Danson playfully suggests their dates now involve [[1](https://people.com/tv/ted-danson-mary-steenburgen-relationship-timeline/)]enjoying quiet time together before sunrise.
**Host:** That’s lovely! It seems they’ve found a way to nurture their bond even as their lives evolve.
**Dr. Carter:** Precisely! It speaks romanticizes a commitment to prioritize each other, even in the simplest of ways. Sharing those quiet moments before the world wakes up can be incredibly grounding and intimate. It shows they’re actively choosing to connect and prioritize their relationship.
**Host:** Wonderful insight, Dr. Carter. Could you elaborate on why this “early bird” approach might be so beneficial for long-term couples?
**Dr. Carter:** Certainly. Life gets busy, especially for successful individuals like Ted and Mary. Carving out dedicated time, even if it’s just for a cup of coffee and conversation before the day begins, ensures they maintain a strong emotional connection. It’s about consistently nurturing the foundation of their relationship.
**Host:** Thank you so much for sharing your expertise, Dr. Carter. It seems Ted and Mary have truly mastered the art of keeping love alive, one sunrise at a time!
