Struggles of Finding Employment and Education in China: A Mother’s Story

2023-11-20 14:02:55

A Chinese woman has been unable to find a job following graduation and failed to pass the graduate school entrance examination for three consecutive years. (Image/reproduced from pixabay)

As parents, we all hope that our children will succeed, or at least find a stable job. However, there is a couple in China. Their daughter has been unable to find a job following graduation. Therefore, they continue to study to prepare for further education. They stay at home all day long while asking for living expenses, leaving them at a loss as to what to do.

The mother revealed on Sohu that her 26-year-old daughter spent three months following graduating from college but failed to find a suitable job. She thought it was because of her low academic qualifications that no employer was willing to accept her, so she decided to take the graduate school exam, but she spent a lot of money just to take the exam. For three years, not only did I neither work nor find a partner, I also asked for 4,000 yuan (approximately NT$18,000) in living expenses every month. She knew very well that it was not because of low academic qualifications, but because of her daughter’s character and thinking.

My daughter thought it was related to her academic qualifications, so she decided to continue her education. (Image/reproduced from pixabay)

The mother pointed out that her daughter was somewhat withdrawn and did not react that quickly, but she was honest and simple. She had no other wishes. As long as her daughter might find a job and get married to the right person, that would be enough. However, her daughter’s job search journey was not smooth. Sometimes she would cry while talking on the phone, so she might only encourage her patiently.

On the other hand, the male classmate who grew up with her daughter found a job before graduation. After asking the mother, she found out that he was working part-time and had hardly asked for money from the family. Only then did she realize that her daughter was overly pampered and had not received any training. , so much so that I mightn’t even find a job following graduation.

Her parents mightn’t stand their daughter staying at home all day asking for money, and were worried regarding her future development. (Image/reproduced from pixabay)

Later, my daughter continued to study and take exams, and has failed for three consecutive years. However, she did not give up, but her expenses became more and more expensive, requiring 4,000 yuan per month. As a mother, it’s not that she doesn’t want to give, but seeing that her daughter basically doesn’t go out except for checking information or taking exams, this situation makes her very worried.

This mother believes that she can understand that young people are under a lot of pressure nowadays, but she cannot accept becoming so fragile. Her husband is also very dissatisfied with her daughter and hopes that she will get married as soon as possible. However, her daughter expresses that she does not want to get married before the age of 30. Looking back on the past They thought it would be easier to give birth to a daughter, but now it makes the couple very worried.

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