He was not invited to his cousin’s wedding. (Schematic diagram / PIXABAY)
The most practical thing to do in a wedding is the cost. Many couples will be careful, but don’t save too much and lose your courtesy. A male netizen abroad said that at the request of his cousin, he kindly helped to make small wedding items such as guestbooks and banners, which cost a total of 2,000 pounds (about NT$70,000). The reason for attending the wedding was that “the venue is too small to accommodate you”, which made him quite astonished.
According to the “Daily Mirror” report, the male netizen revealed that he runs a printing company with his wife, and his cousin is getting married recently. He hopes that he can help make signs, banners, guestbooks and other small wedding items. . The male netizen said, “We do this all the time for relatives and friends’ weddings and events, and we never charge.”
Seeing that the wedding is about to take place, and the wedding guest urged to prepare all the items before the X date in order to arrange the wedding, but the couple has not received the wedding invitation. The male netizen thought that his cousin might have been too busy and forgot, so he asked his wife to call for inquiries, but the cousin’s response made him super dumbfounded. My cousin replied, “Oh, we’ve scaled down the size of our wedding to only invite close friends and family, and there’s no room for you in the small venue.”
The male netizen exploded, “My wife and I felt very hurt and humiliated, and during the process, my cousin kept modifying the contents, and we all tried our best to cooperate, spending a lot of effort, money, and even postponing other orders. At the request of my younger brother, I completed things on time, but I didn’t expect to be treated like this.” After that, he decided to charge 2,000 pounds (about NT$70,000) for materials, but was verbally abused by other relatives and best man in turn.
The male netizen sighed that because he received too much harassment, he would not rule out charging his cousin the original price. If his cousin did not pay, he would not hand over things. As soon as the post came out, everyone left comments such as “If I would charge the original price”, “When we return to my cousin, we have to narrow the discount range and only offer close friends and family members”, “You can’t ask people who are not guests to give gifts, So it becomes a commercial transaction and they have to pay.”