2024-02-14 15:19:45
And quietly appreciate the things around you, and you will find that each has its own rhythm and is also wonderful! (fotolia)
We had a family dinner during the Lunar New Year, but because it was too late to make a reservation, we might only find one restaurant specializing in mutton to sit by the fire. On the same day, everyone came to their appointment on time. After sitting down, they discovered that the nephew was afraid of the smell and would not eat mutton at all! For a moment, my heart sank, and I secretly blamed my brother for not informing him first, and for letting the organizer be so careless and careless.
During the dinner, everyone tried their best to persuade the little nephew to try the fresh and delicious body-warming meat; however, he was indifferent and just immersed himself in eating rice and drinking drinks. Seeing that persuasion was ineffective, I had no choice but to let him go! Afterwards, my mother felt sorry for her grandson because he didn’t have enough to eat, and I casually complained that my nephew was too stubborn and unwilling to try new things.
Unexpectedly, my niece spoke up: It’s a matter of taste. Everyone’s adaptation time is different, so you can’t force it. Hearing this, I was stunned. On the one hand, I was amazed by Xiao Nizi’s maturity, tolerance and openness; on the other hand, I was ashamed of my own stubbornness and short-sightedness. yes! Everyone has a different rhythm and pace. Why bother using your own standards to measure others…
Through this matter, I think of the flowers, plants and trees in the courtyard. They also have different styles and postures. Judging from the two sweet potato leaves my mother planted in the courtyard, with the same cultivation, irrigation and care, the ones inside the flower bed grew full of vitality and flourishing; on the other hand, the ones outside the flower bed were somewhat lifeless and stagnant. It’s really surprising that there is such a big difference just a short distance apart. This is true for plants, let alone humans!
Also, in the past month, the white jade butterfly has been blooming in full swing and bustling with excitement. Every day, some of the remaining stamens are withered, and there are also new buds waiting to bloom. The flowers and leaves on the trees look full of vigor and vitality. The jasmine not far away is in full bloom from summer to early autumn. At that time, it was so powerful and swift that it dazzled people and caught them off guard; now, following winter, it is quiet and silent. Presumably it is recuperating and getting ready to go.
In addition, this time, the younger brother and his family had no objections, showing their willingness to compromise and cooperate unconditionally. The consideration and easy-going contained in this are very worthy of praise!
“There is faith in the tide, and there are flowers in time”, but the pace is different and the mystery is endless. It is under such natural laws that we see the changing of seasons and the changes of all things. Some people are successful at a young age and are high-spirited; some people are late bloomers and come from behind. This is also part of this rule. And quietly appreciate the things around you, and you will find that each has its own rhythm and is also wonderful! @
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