In fact, this avoidance can act as a defense for people who fear they might get hurt in their relationships. Some zodiac signs they are particularly prone to this kind of sabotage because of their characteristics and tendencies.
VIRGIN
Virgos may have certain tendencies or personality traits that could contribute by creating some feelings of dissatisfaction in relationships. Often, they can become over-analytical and critical, striving for perfection. This perfectionism can create unrealistic expectations. They want a lot of the impossible and can have a lot of parameters when it comes to their idealizations. Often their partners can become frustrated as they feel that they could not please them even if they were gods or turned into superhumans to make everything right… Virgos can become judgmental just because they tend to they pick up on blemishes with terrifically targeted precision. This is mainly because they find it difficult to accept their own faults and consequently everyone else’s faults, which they usually scrutinize. Usually it’s not the big and important ones that conflict with their morals or values, because they don’t put people with such deviations in their lives in the first place. It is the unimportant, the little things and the simple everyday habits that they find extremely annoying and cannot tolerate. There is a fear that makes them think they have to be perfect to be loved, which seems like an oxymoron because it prevents them from experiencing the ideal relationships they crave. While their qualities make them excellent at analysis, they can lead to overthinking and excessive self-criticism. In relationships, Virgos can constantly control themselves and their partner, robbing the relationship of spontaneity. They may find it difficult to accept their own faults and those of others, which can lead them to push their loved ones away for fear of letting them down or letting them down. Their tendency to worry about everything can also make them reluctant to open up and feel relaxed. Their personal space and the time they want to be alone is necessary for them, otherwise they don’t really calm down. So they can in many ways and for many reasons remove the match and love from their lives. But it is often the absence that makes their heart remember the reasons why it had beaten harder.
SCORPIO
Scorpios are ice and fire together. They have many emotions hidden behind a seemingly calm, neutral, impenetrable, even cold exterior. They are intense, passionate and deeply emotional, but they are also incredibly reserved. They fear betrayal more than anything else, and this fear often leads them to extreme preventive measures. When they love, they love with all their being. But the road to their hearts may not be paved with rose petals. Many of the mechanisms they have developed in love are to determine if the person they are with is worthy of their total love. They want to be sure that the person they are interested in is someone who is truly willing to stick by their side until the end, or if it is someone who just wants to pass the time and could break their heart leaving them alone and hurt. By pushing someone away, they can assess their sincerity. Scorpios are very protective of their feelings and their fear of betrayal and their many sensitivities can lead them to test their partners or even keep them at a distance. They may also push them away and cut them out of their lives altogether. This acts as another defense mechanism to keep them from getting hurt. This behavior stems from their deep-seated fear of the weakness that love can cause and their need to maintain power. Their passionate emotional nature can lead to very strong emotions. When someone gets too close, it can cause a storm of emotions that they are not always ready to deal with. Scorpios want to be in control of their feelings and situations. When they realize they’ve let someone get too close to their heart, they can feel like they’re relinquishing that control, which often prompts them to rush to distance themselves again. Despite their desire for deep, meaningful relationships, they often struggle to trust both themselves and the other person, which can cause them to sabotage their relationships and not give them the chance they deserve.
AQUARIUS
Aquarians value their independence and freedom very much. They also love logic and are thoughtful people, whose interests and mental abilities make them stand out. However, they may often have difficulty with emotional expression and prefer to rationalize their emotions. When faced with challenges with the person they care about, they may respond by overanalyzing and approaching issues with cold logic, a mindset that isn’t always the best fit for matters of the heart. While an Aquarius may have deep feelings for their partner, expressing what they feel in traditional ways may not be their forte. He may try the more conventional aspects of love, such as verbal expression of love or romantic actions, or even the romantic nonsense that most people show their interest with. This weakness of theirs with the world of emotions makes them feel somewhat out of their depth in this area. In addition, because they are idealists, they have certain expectations about love and the person they want near them. When reality does not develop based on these ideals they may be disappointed, leading them to a sense of dissatisfaction in the relationship. As they are radical to their core, this resentment or their involuntary reflexes will not go unnoticed. The idea then of compromising, or even being limited by his ideals that may be lurking around the next corner, can cause Aquarius anxiety, making him hesitant when it comes to commitment or giving in to love. This fear can lead to a reluctance to fully let go in a relationship. Aquarians are very difficult to read, which makes them seem even more unpredictable. When they suddenly pull away, they may have changed their minds, or it may be a sign that they just want more space. As a sign of revolution and independence, they usually need autonomous partners who can stand on their own and allow them the time and space to feel as different and as free as they can. Otherwise, their fear of losing themselves and everything they value can make them unapproachable, negative and uncaring, but sometimes they can also tend to push away those who would be closest to them.
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