For most of us, these three types of privacy don’t need to be arbitrarily disclosed, unless it’s someone close to us. Otherwise it’s not good for us.
1. My Personal Information
In fact, some people are defenseless and tell everyone their family and personal stories when they meet them.
Example: I have a friend who is outspoken and thinks well of everyone. After that, because she was too frank and she told everything regarding herself. As a result, she was exploited and harassed by other subjects with or without relations with her. In the end, she suffered a lot.
In fact, adults should know how to protect their privacy and family affairs. Because of the human heart, you never know if the person you are dealing with is benevolent or malicious? In the face of such a person with such evil thoughts, you still reveal your private affairs, so aren’t you very unlucky?
2. Life plan
In fact, not everyone likes to see you succeed, which will make them seem incompetent and pathetic. So when some people see you working hard, they hope that you will fall into the abyss and become a very embarrassed person, that way they are happy.
So, if you have any plans for life, you should keep them in mind and don’t create obstacles for yourself.
I have a friend who was opposed by many relatives when he wanted to go abroad to study for a doctorate. They all said that girls shouldn’t go to high school, don’t stay away from their parents,… and no one considers her job prospects following graduation. To put it bluntly, none of these people really thought well of her, no one looked at the matter from her point of view.
In fact, everyone is jealous. When you want to work hard, you work hard silently and not openly. Otherwise, when the people around you see that you’re leaving the relationship, they’ll get jealous and pull you back.
3. Money
In fact, you only need to know your own income and savings, no one needs to know and you don’t need to tell. Some people think that speaking out must have dignity. But in reality, he gets face and he is also remembered by others.
A netizen said previously: After I made money, my real income was never revealed. Because following a friend of hers revealed, the family came every three days to ask for and borrow money.
This reminds those around: Never reveal your income easily. After people have income and savings, they can avoid a lot of trouble if they manage their mouth well. Some people will be happy for you when they learn regarding your savings. But some other people will take advantage of that problem to annoy or make it difficult for you. Either way, it’s not good for you.
So a smart person will keep his mouth shut in the first place and never reveal it.
