The story of the ‘You Blame Couple’ has been revealed.
In MBC’s ‘Oh Eun-young Report – Marriage Hell’, which aired on the 9th, ‘You Blame Couple’, who have been married for 11 years and are raising three sons, appeared in the studio.
On the weekend of the ‘You Blame Couple’, while the husband went to an early soccer club, the wife alone took care of the house and three sons.
The wife, who is having a conflict with her husband and her in-laws, hurriedly organizes the house and prepares meals when her husband contacts her that her parents-in-law are suddenly visiting. It doesn’t work”, “(Unripe radish) If you think regarding these things a little, you won’t make mistakes.” The nagging continues even while she is eating, and the wife eventually goes into her laundry room alone and weeps. She said in the studio, her wife said, “I am also dissatisfied, I would like you to say a warm word, but you make it stick in her heart. I wonder if you can tell me differently,” and Dr. Oh Eun-young said, “Your parents-in-law will think you are advising them to do well. What I want to say to my parents-in-law is that I would like them to consider that daughter-in-law can be difficult due to their rank and position. She and she shouldn’t open drawers or rummage when she’s living on her own,” she says.
After cleaning the house, the father-in-law said, “Don’t cry even if you hear something unpleasant today. Even if you say good things, you always cry. When I said, “If this cries, the other person gets embarrassed,” she said. Even talking to her parents, her mother and father, she is upset and sheds tears. Please don’t look at me unconditionally badly,” she says.
In response, the father-in-law said, “Then let’s talk regarding it. What they say these days is adult ADHD,” he said, and his wife said, “You keep saying that, but it doesn’t matter how much I did wrong or good, it always makes me disabled. It’s called anger disorder. I took a psychological test, but nothing like that came out.”
In a situation where the voice is getting higher and higher due to the difference of opinion between each other, the father-in-law said, “You did it like you were going to slam the door and smash it. grab your husband That’s a disease where you can’t hold back your anger.” The husband said, “I took his parents, wife, and eldest son to the soccer club year-end party. I went to the second car, had a drink, and went to get a massage and fell asleep. When I got home, my wife exploded. She went to my room and locked the door, but she came following me and hit and kicked the door. The door was regarding to break, so she opened it and she grabbed her by the collar, and her mother saw it,” she explained.
My wife said, “I liked this person so much that I got married, but as soon as I got married, I had a child, so I spent more time at home. However, I cried every day because I felt like I was trapped at that time. I was waiting for my husband all day, but he always came in late at night drunk, and I wanted to talk, but all I got back was curses and indifference. No one understands how I feel,” she says.
Dr. Oh Eun-young said, “I don’t agree with that last act. No matter what the reason, it is impossible for family members to scream and use violence, especially in the presence of children. I didn’t intentionally stay out, but I did fall asleep. Then the people at home worry. Saying ‘I’m sorry I fell asleep’ is to understand the essence and solve it. It’s not an explanation, it’s an apology. An apology and an explanation saying sorry are different. He said, “I don’t think I can understand my wife’s worries,” and “I think this is an important part of reducing quarrels in the future of the two of you.”
Viewers who watched the broadcast showed reactions such as “It’s frustrating”, “Wow, is it 3 to 1?”, “I’m trying to curse.”
Meanwhile, ‘national mentor’ Dr. Oh Eun-young, this time it’s a couple’s solution! MBC’s ‘Oh Eun-young Report – Marriage Hell’, a real talk-mentary program in which couples observe the daily lives of couples who have become worse off than others and appear in the studio to share their concerns regarding marital conflict, is broadcast every Monday at 10:30 pm.
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