[한국강사신문 이미숙 기자] 19th (Mon) <오은영 리포트 - 결혼 지옥>In the case of the couple who reported their husbands for child abuse, they came to Dr. Oh Eun-young.
A wife who went through the pain of divorce and a husband who decided to love even that wound met and thought it would only smell like a sweet newlywed… Now, the conflict has gotten worse and the two complain of pain, saying that they can’t breathe. The reason for this couple’s precarious conflict is the difference in custody of her wife’s daughter from her ex-marriage. Her studio was even shocked when she was told that her wife had reported her child’s stepdad, her husband, for child abuse. However, the husband still wants to be a true ‘dad’ to his wife’s daughter, who calls him ‘uncle’… What’s going on with them?
Two years ago, the husband fell in love at first sight when he saw his wife smiling. The active courtship led to a serious meeting and finally the housekeeping was put together, but the problem started then. Until the husband and wife and their 7-year-old daughter, a child from a previous marriage, became a family, they began to experience serious conflict due to differences in custody.
The couple showed extreme confrontation from the way they play with their child. Her husband said that her child was so pretty that she hugged her tight and played pranks on him, and she cried out to let him go, saying he didn’t like it. Even though her wife told her not to bully her child, her husband did not approve of her opinion, saying that it was an expression of her affection because she loved her child.
Was it because of a wild joke? Ai’s drawing of the family was missing her husband, and Ai also confessed that she hadn’t drawn her husband because she “harassed” her. Then, the husband mightn’t hide his feelings of sadness toward the child, who felt that his expression of affection was bullying… Even at the clothing store he went with the child, this kind of sadness broke out. When the employee said, “Let’s see if it goes well with the clothes my dad is wearing,” the child immediately shouted, “Because it’s not my dad!” The husband, who watched the scene once more in the studio, mightn’t hide his tears. What is the current address of the child who still calls his stepdad ‘uncle’ and the husband who can’t overcome it?
The next day, the husband headed alone to the police station. The reason her husband went to the police station is because her wife reported her husband for child abuse. Her wife brought up the case of her glasses as the reason for her reporting. Her child stepped on her husband’s glasses while playing, and the angry husband threw her glasses at her child, swearing at them. Her wife’s position was firm. It was because she wanted to make child abuse education compulsory rather than punishing her to make sure her husband’s violent behavior was prevented.
Dr. Oh Eun-young also comforted the two couples, saying that she understands the wife’s desperate desire to solve the problem of a child that cannot be resolved through dialogue between husband and wife, even with the help of public power.
However, apart from the child problem, the couple’s conflicts continued to erupt. During a housewarming party with her friends at her house, her wife complains that her husband doesn’t believe her. In her automatically recorded phone call, when her wife sniffed at her, her husband immediately started to stop her by saying, ‘Did you cry?’ Her wife explained that ‘it wasn’t a cry’, but her husband never believed it and persisted… I felt it, and eventually it spread to a couple fight.
Even the panelists who were listening to why her husband was doing this are all puzzled. Dr. Oh pointed out that the most important part was not the authenticity of the fact that her wife cried, but her distrust of her wife. What is the solution for this husband who doubts his wife’s words even in the smallest detail?
The healing report given by Dr. Oh Eun-young to the Go-Stop couple, who are contemplating whether to go or stop to become a true family, is on Monday, December 19 at 10:30 pm MBC <오은영 리포트 - 결혼 지옥> You can see it in episode 20.
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‘Oh Eun-young Report-Marriage Hell’ information: It is a reality sympathy talk program where couples observe the perilous daily lives of married couples, appear in the studio, confide their unspoken concerns to Dr. Oh Eun-young, a ‘national mentor’, and find a solution. ‘Oh Eun-young Report – Marriage Hell’ raised the topicality and expectations of the program even more with the appearance of not only ordinary couples, but also celebrity couples who are known by name. Every episode, celebrity couples who communicate with the public through various broadcast programs and SNS activities boldly show the secrets of the couple that have been hidden in the screen, and reveal the more honest and private story of the couple’s conflict. It can be viewed as an official video, and the cast includes Dr. Eunyoung Oh, Soojin So, Haha, Eungsu Kim, and Jimin Park. Episode 2 recorded a rating of 7.1% (provided by Nielsen Korea). The broadcast time is Monday night at 10:30.
*Dr. Eun-Young Oh (Profile/Activities) is the best ‘national’ most trusted by Korean parents through broadcasts and lectures such as SBS ‘My Child Has Changed’, EBS ’60 Minute Parents’, and Channel A ‘Oh Eun-Young’s Golden Side Counseling Center’. He is widely known as a parenting mentor. In 2017, she won the ‘Brand of the Year’ Grand Prize in the early childhood education expert category. In 2013, at the 40th ‘Korean Broadcasting Awards’ in the cultural arts category, she won her individual award for her SBS ‘My Child Has Changed’ program. His books include 『How should I tell you』, which kindly introduces ‘parents’ words’, 『Impossible children and angry parents』, which deals with how to control emotions and how to raise children, There are 『Oh Eun-young’s Reconciliation』, 『Anxious Mother, Indifferent Dad』, 『Children’s Stress』, 『Mother Wants to Teach, Child Wants to Play』, and 『To Parents Having Difficulty with My Child』.
