original title: night reading | life, half gains and losses, half calm
Famous Gallery | Claude Monet,French painter,Impressionism representative andfounder one.
Face the world with a calm heart.
In daily life, we can always see that some people are hasty and panic, while others are calm and relaxed;
Some people’s little things are like the end of the world;
So I thought, the same people, eating the same food, why is there such a big gap?
In fact, the two performances are the same person.
We go from panic to calm, from impetuous to indifference.
In the tempering of life, while tasting the gains and losses, learn to be calm.
There is a saying: “In the midst of a big wave, neither joy nor fear.”
In the face of the stormy waves in the secular world, it is an expression of calmness to always keep calm and not change your face.
There is an old saying: “Let the world praise it without persuading it, and the world will dislike it without adding frustration. It’s all regarding the distinction between inside and outside, and the debate between honor and disgrace. That’s it.”
It probably means: Don’t be more motivated by others’ praise, don’t be more depressed by others’ slander, have your own measure, and distinguish between honor and shame.
This is a calm and determined performance.
Calm people are more amiable, kinder to the world, and more temperamental in their behavior and speech, so they can get more friendship, more help, and more praise.
I hope that in the future, we can all become people who have heaven and earth in our hearts and are at ease and calm in our hearts.
Famous Gallery | Claude Monet
Many things in the world are subject to controversy, but the word calm is not controversial.
Calmness is a more advanced attitude towards life, and it is also the background color that life should have.
I have seen an old man who is still in his 80s and still has good eyesight and a strong body.
He walks neither in a hurry nor slow, nor in a hurry when speaking.
After chatting with him, I learned that the old man loved to read books when he was young, and he also went out of the town to see a bigger world.
In addition, the old man is known for his good character in several nearby villages.
In the decades of ups and downs, few people have seen him angry, and he has never seen anyone in a hurry, always calm and relaxed.
If there is a wise man in reality, it must be someone with the temperament of this old man.
Calmness is a state that a person should maintain throughout his life.
InsideCalm heart, have a big heart, work hard to move forward, and life is also calm.
Famous Gallery | Claude Monet
Life is a process of gaining on one side and losing on the other.
If you are obsessed with gains and losses, you will be ecstatic because of your gains, and regretful because of your losses, but you will end up indulging in them, tumbling in the sea of misery, and unable to perceive the benefits of an ordinary life.
Only by maintaining a calm attitude and looking down on gains and losses can we live a good life.
Standing at thirty, no doubts at forty, and knowing the mandate of heaven at fifty.
At some point in the future, we will suddenly understand:
Life is a passenger, good and bad, will eventually fade; pain and pleasure will eventually be forgotten; rich and poor, will eventually return to a handful of loess.
Instead of being obsessed with various gains and losses, good and bad in life, it is better to open up, look at the world with magnanimity, and live life calmly.
May we be able to face the world with a calm heart.
light up”look in”, do not be alarmed by the humiliation, watch the flowers bloom and fall in front of the court; go and stay without any intention, look at the clouds in the sky.
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