I don’t know how people get married to rich people. As for me, it was probably the most wrong move in my life. Remember the day I got on the flower car, seeing the expensive cars parked in front of my house, my neighbors kept saying:
“Well, after I have to tell my children to get married, I also choose this husband’s house. Only then will parents be able to open their eyes to their neighbors.”
Indeed, my husband’s family has economic conditions, but in the blanket, I know that the blanket has lice. We got married because the doctor told us to get married. At first, I thought I would be a single mother because the groom’s family didn’t mention marriage at all. Then I heard that my mother-in-law went to the doctor that day, seeing that people are now infertile too much, she hesitated, so she thought again. The next day, she called me to ask for the address to talk.
Although after that, the wedding was still fully celebrated, but I know that my married life will never be complete. My husband is famous as a business manager but works for his father’s company. As a result, in the family, he is not a voice. Sometimes I want to defend my wife, but in front of my parents, my husband can’t help but disobey.
When it comes to life at my husband’s house, I feel like a bird in a cage. Just got married the day before, the next day, my mother-in-law let the maid rest. She knows I’m pregnant, but she still wants me to do all the housework. Many days when I saw her sitting and resting for a while, her mother-in-law hinted:
“Surely you don’t have to do much at home, do you? My house is not large, but I see that you are not very clean. Come on, let’s go to the dining room or everyone will return.”
Needless to say, apart from the title, I am no different from the osin of that house. But the good thing is that my husband loves his wife very much. Every time I see you cry, I encourage you:
“Well, I worked hard for a few years. Let him have more money and experience and then open his own business. When I had money, I bought a house and didn’t live with my parents anymore.”
Because of that statement from my husband, I kept holding back. My parents live in the countryside so I don’t know about this. Every time I call, my mother also asks how is life, is it stable, is the husband’s family good? So I lied and said it was fine, sisters. After getting married, who wants to make their parents worry more? However, the husband’s parents are not satisfied with the family. So, when my parents came to play, my mother-in-law threw me some money and told me:
“I use this money to rent a hotel for my grandparents to sleep in. I don’t like having strangers in the house.”
I know that my mother-in-law discriminates against my parents, so I also quietly rented a hotel for my grandparents. A few times like that, my parents are very shy. Who would come to visit me and stay in a hotel like my house ever? So after that, parents just rushed home the same day. Says that the family is busy, but I know that perhaps grandparents are more afraid of disturbing their children.
Last day on New Year’s Eve, I went back to my hometown to play a few meals. Just stopped the car when her mother-in-law called and said:
“I forgot to say, I will come back this time and go to Grandparents New Year. In the next few days, we will be very busy with Tet, and the children will not be able to return. Tell your grandparents to sympathize, the daughter is married, maybe grandparents also understand that.”
Of course, my parents won’t say anything. But sad grandparents are certain. I also feel guilty. Daughters are getting married but increasingly distant like this, no parent would want. However, because it was the first year of marriage, my mother also wanted everything to be perfect. Seeing that I was still sad, she also encouraged me:
“Come on, my son, there are many brothers in the family, so it is reasonable for me to stay. Well, when you have time in January, you can go back to your parents.”
Because I didn’t come back to celebrate Tet anymore, the day I left, my mother packed up a lot of things. She also carefully wrapped a bag of specialty glutinous rice to give to the family to pack the cake, saying that there is no rice that is as delicious as the rice from the countryside. Moreover, sending out country goods as gifts, the people of the city appreciate them very much. I think so too, so I’m excited to bring it up, and even show it to my mother-in-law. But as soon as she saw the bag of rice, her mother-in-law frowned:
“Next time don’t pick up these. The city lacks nothing but has to carry a few pounds of rice in the armpit. I told my parents that you thank me, but then I bring it back or give it to someone. I’m not hungry at home.”
Hearing that, my husband also felt that his mother had reached her limit. I argued with my mother, the result is that now, the atmosphere in my house is extremely tense, sisters. Unexpectedly, my husband was angry with his mother for a few days without talking. And I’m in the middle, not sure how to solve this. In your opinion, should I take this opportunity to ask my husband to live alone for comfort?