Not yet a husband and wife, but my boyfriend strictly controlled money and travel. Then how suffocating to get married later?
Trong and I are both workers working away from home. Because we wanted to save money on rent and wanted to get to know each other better before we officially became husband and wife, we decided to live together.
After living together for half a year, the relationship between the two of us is getting closer and closer. During the day we go to work, in the evening we cook together, then go out or chat at home.
I see Trong as a responsible man who knows how to nurture the future of two children. Cheerful personality, get along with everyone. The more we are together, the more I love him.
I am a frugal person, Trong is more frugal than me. Whoever’s salary makes him keep, he will contribute 2 million to me every month for living expenses. He very often reminds me to spend sparingly, buy only what is necessary. Your words are very true, so I always support them.
Before Tet, Trong asked me to stay and work part-time, not to go home to celebrate Tet to save money. Because I’m young, I haven’t had a problem with my husband and children, so I visit my family every New Year. This year, I still plan to return like every year. Although my boyfriend was annoyed and grumbled a few times, I still didn’t change my mind.
After a week apart, the day we met once more, Trong and I sat together and talked for the whole day without ending. We talked regarding the work the two of us had done recently. He also boasted that he had earned 4 million on Tet days. And I honestly say that I have spent all my savings in the past 1 year for a few days back home to celebrate Tet.
Trong angrily scolded me for wasteful spending, working hard all year, spending a few days of Tet. When the two were not in love, I didn’t care how I spent, but now that I’m a husband and wife, I have to know how to save.
What my boyfriend said was absolutely true, so I mightn’t argue with anything. But it was this contradiction that woke me up. When we were in love, Trong was upset when I went back to my hometown to play, grumbling regarding how much money I spent. So following getting married, he controlled even more tightly.
On the one hand, I want to say goodbye to Trong, return to my hometown to get married to my parents, save me from being far away from my hometown and spending money on travel. On the one hand, I still have feelings for my boyfriend, I don’t know which path to choose?
Theo phunuvietnam.vn
