A few days ago, my biological father suddenly called to say that my mother had to be hospitalized, telling us to go home urgently. Arriving at the place, the doctor told her that she had to have an emergency surgery right away, she needed to pay 300 million.
My husband is a manager in a private company, his income is much higher than me. It is said that men with money are easily spoiled, and the husband’s company has many beautiful and young girls, so since I got married, I have managed the finances in the house. Me and him agreed, his salary will be given to me to hold and be responsible for living expenses in the house as well as saving for big work.
At the beginning of each month, my husband receives his salary and then gives it to me. I just gave him 5 million pocket money, gas, phone and lunch. If you have any arising, tell me I will give it. Just like that, her husband didn’t complain, he “obediently” paid money every month. The money I hold will provide for my husband’s parents, food, electricity and water and some other expenses for the family. In general, every month I set aside an excess. I feel very satisfied and really trust my husband.
A few days ago, my biological father suddenly called to say that my mother had to be hospitalized, telling us to go home urgently. Arriving at the place, the doctor told her that she had to have an emergency surgery right away, she needed to pay 300 million. But my father doesn’t have that much money, I have money, but before Tet, a close friend asked me to invest in land. I took out all my savings to buy, now I can’t sell in a day or two. I called some friends but they all refused because they had to spend a lot of money on Tet holiday, so they didn’t have any. While I couldn’t handle it, I asked my husband if he could handle it.
At first my husband said no, but seeing that I was too worried, after a while he went out and immediately transferred 300 million to me. I took care of paying for my mother’s hospital fees, the surgery was also successful, my mother’s accident passed, so I also sighed in relief. From this, I also learned a lesson, to leave a little money to manage, but to bring it all to the forefront, it is regrettable if something happens.
When my mother’s health was stable and then she was discharged from the hospital, everything was fine, I confided and asked her husband where he borrowed money so quickly. My husband thought for a long time and then said: “It’s my money that I’ve accumulated. But I can’t borrow it anywhere, seeing that my mother’s condition can’t be delayed, I take it out and use it.”
After listening to it, I suddenly felt very uncomfortable in my heart. For the past three years, he has hidden a black fund of 300 million without me knowing. Years from now when I’m old, you’ll hide a lot of money, what will you do? While I thought he always believed in me. Hiding money like that shows that he doesn’t take me seriously either.
Although my husband said it was important to save my mother, I still felt worried and sad in my heart. Should I divorce him? I’m afraid you’ve betrayed me since I didn’t know it. My thinking is a bit paranoid, give me some advice?
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According to Vietnamnet