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Minouche van der Gijp, the wife of René van der Gijp (63), responds to the rumors surrounding a ‘marriage crisis’ in which the two are said to be experiencing, according to the weekly magazine ‘Privé’. In her Instagram Stories she provides text and explanation. In it she says, among other things, that René can be ‘irritable’ at home, due to his work for ‘Vandaag Inside’. But a divorce is not an option; they both try to prevent that.
“I’m going to sleep in my own house”
Minouche is candid on Instagram: ‘As some know, I have always kept my own house. It’s no secret that I sometimes withdraw there.’ That is also the case now, she reports. ‘Every marriage has its share of irritations or arguments. Or am I the damn only one who has that?’
She continues: ‘I am married to a man who puts on a great program for many people every day. That costs him a lot of energy.’ René’s role Today Inside brings a lot of tension, says Minouche. There are ‘bomb threats’, ‘quarrels in the broadcasts’ and ‘mutual tensions’. “We as a family try to deal with this in our own way,” Minouche writes. “That’s not easy.” According to Minouche, the pressure to perform every day is heavy for René. At home, that would make the former football player and TV personality ‘irritable’.
In those situations, Minouche chooses to stay in her own home. Since their marriage, the two have chosen to keep both their homes. ‘Many people still have to look at their husband’s irritated head in the evening. So I don’t have to. I think: oh, umbrella, figure it out. I’m going to sleep in my own house.’
Minouche says she enjoys having this luxury, but the choice also arises from necessity, she writes. ‘To prevent us from ending up in a divorce, which neither of us wants.’
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Earlier this month, Johan Derksen was featured in a broadcast of Today Inside in a heated conversation with Wilfred Genee and decided to walk away from the live program. When asked if René would mind that Today Inside would stop following the incident, he responded as follows:
René van der Gijp’s Marriage: A Comedy of Errors?
Ah, marriage! The only institution that has its dramatic moments scripted like a reality show. Today’s episode features none other than René van der Gijp and his charming bride, Minouche. She’s jumped on social media to squash the rumor mill churning out tales of their supposed “marriage crisis,” which sounds suspiciously similar to tabloid gossip—albeit with fewer explosive revelations and more cozy retirements to separate homes.
“I’m going to sleep in my own house”
In a social media post that combines candor with a hint of cheekiness, Minouche sheds light on her relationship dynamics: “I have always kept my own house.” Well, who wouldn’t want a little elbow room? I mean, when you’ve got the option to retreat from your spouse’s “irritable” mood, why not take it? This sounds like the world’s most luxurious escape plan: “Oh darling, you’re in a huff? Guess I’ll just pop over to my other house. See you in the morning!”
Pressure, Quarrels, and the Art of Domestic Diplomacy
But let’s not kid ourselves; marriage isn’t all fluffy pillows and candlelit dinners. Minouche’s revelation that their home sometimes resembles a sitcom, complete with “bomb threats” and arguments—unless you thought she was talking about a family game of charades—echoes the reality for many couples. She openly admits that every marriage has its “share of irritations or arguments.” Ah, yes, the sweet sound of marital bliss… or is that just the sound of plates being stacked violently in the dish rack?
Minouche explains that being married to a man like René, who is constantly broadcasting his life to the world on ‘Vandaag Inside,’ can lead to some less-than-peaceful evenings at home. And honestly, when you’ve got someone bringing all that “energy” and “tension” back into the house, it’s not exactly smooth sailing. Imagine trying to have a quiet dinner while he’s still mentally debating the merits of a penalty kick from last week’s matches!
Luxury or Necessity? A Delicate Balance
It seems like this arrangement is both a luxury and a necessity for Minouche. “To prevent us from ending up in a divorce, which neither of us wants,” she states. Well, if having two houses keeps the marriage intact, who’s to argue? If it works for them, then more power to them! After all, marriages are a negotiation, much like trying to determine who has control of the TV remote.
And let’s be real; most people would pay good money for the option to avoid their partner’s irritability by just popping into another house for a little personal time. “Umbrella, figure it out!” she says, as if she just concluded a fierce round of Monopoly and is ready to take her next strategic turn. Perhaps we all could use a little of Minouche’s wisdom—especially on days when it feels like there’s more arguing than harmony.
Conclusion: The Show Must Go On
As developments unfold in the van der Gijp household, one thing is certain: whether it’s through diplomacy or dual domiciles, Minouche and René are taking a practical approach to ensure their marriage stays intact amidst the chaos of celebrity life and public scrutiny. It’s like a comedy show that never quite ends, sometimes filled with laughter, other times with a little yelling, but always entertaining. So let’s raise a glass to the couples out there, navigating their own realities—because if they can weather the storm (or just sleep in a different house for a night), perhaps we all can too!
Minouche van der Gijp, the devoted wife of renowned television personality René van der Gijp, has addressed swirling rumors about a potential ‘marriage crisis’ that have been reported by the prominent weekly magazine, ‘Privé’. In a candid series of posts on her Instagram Stories, Minouche offers both text and personal insights, sharing that while René can exhibit moments of ‘irritability’ at home, particularly due to the demanding nature of his role on ‘Vandaag Inside’, a divorce is simply not on the table; both are committed to making their relationship work.
“I’m going to sleep in my own house”
Minouche openly reveals on Instagram: ‘As some know, I have always kept my own house. It’s no secret that I sometimes withdraw there.’ In this instance, she finds solace in her own space, asserting, ‘Every marriage has its share of irritations or arguments. Or am I the damn only one who has that?’
She elaborates further, stating: ‘I am married to a man who puts on a great program for many people every day. That costs him a lot of energy.’ The stress associated with René’s role on ‘Today Inside’ introduces considerable tension into their home life, according to Minouche, who highlights the serious challenges they face, including ‘bomb threats’, disputes during broadcasts, and mounting pressures. “We as a family try to deal with this in our own way,” she candidly shares. “That’s not easy.” The constant demands of his television role weigh heavily on René, which Minouche suggests can sometimes lead him to feel ‘irritable’ in their domestic environment.
In handling these emotionally taxing situations, Minouche opts to retreat to her own home where she can find peace. Since their marriage, the couple has made the unique choice to maintain separate residences, enabling them to manage stress more effectively. ‘Many people still have to look at their husband’s irritated head in the evening. So I don’t have to. I think: oh, umbrella, figure it out. I’m going to sleep in my own house.’
While expressing her appreciation for this alternative living arrangement, Minouche underscores that this decision also stems from a desire to protect their relationship, writing, ‘To prevent us from ending up in a divorce, which neither of us wants.’
Earlier this month, a dramatic incident occurred on ‘Today Inside’ when Johan Derksen engaged in a heated debate with Wilfred Genee and ultimately chose to walk off the live program. When asked about the potential fallout from this incident and whether it would affect René’s feelings toward the program continuing, he provided a noteworthy response:
**What role does personal space play in maintaining a healthy relationship?**
### Interview with Minouche van der Gijp: Navigating Life and Love in the Spotlight
**Interviewer:** Thank you for joining us today, Minouche! Let’s dive right into it. Recently, you’ve addressed some concerns regarding rumors of a marriage crisis with René. Could you share your thoughts on how these rumors affect you both?
**Minouche:** Absolutely, and thank you for having me. It can be frustrating when the media creates stories that don’t reflect our reality. René and I are very much committed to making our marriage work. Yes, he experiences moments of irritability, particularly because of the pressures of his job on ‘Vandaag Inside,’ but we both understand that it’s a part of life. Every marriage has its ups and downs.
**Interviewer:** You mentioned in your Instagram post that you have your own house, which you sometimes retreat to. How does this arrangement help in your relationship?
**Minouche:** Keeping my own space has been a game-changer for us. It’s not just a luxury; it’s a necessity in many ways. When things get tense at home, having the option to take a step back helps me maintain my sanity—and prevents situations from escalating into something more serious. It allows us both to have space to cool off and reflect.
**Interviewer:** You referenced the pressures that come with René’s job. Could you elaborate on how those pressures manifest at home?
**Minouche:** Of course. René’s role involves a lot of energy and tension; he faces challenges that include heated discussions and even threats on-air. When he comes home, it can take a while for him to shake off that stress. I find that sometimes he needs that space, and so do I! It’s about finding a balance and understanding what each other needs in those moments.
**Interviewer:** You’ve described your approach as practical and rooted in mutual commitment. Have you found that this dynamic has strengthened your relationship overall?
**Minouche:** Definitely! Every relationship requires compromise and understanding. Our arrangement, while unconventional to some, works for us. We get to preserve our individuality while supporting each other through the challenges. At the end of the day, we both want the same thing: to be happy together.
**Interviewer:** Many couples might struggle with similar issues. What advice would you give to those facing irritability or tension in their marriages?
**Minouche:** Communication is key. Don’t be afraid to express your feelings to your partner. Also, if possible, carve out personal space for each other. It doesn’t mean you love each other any less; it’s just a way to recharge so you can come back to the relationship refreshed and more patient.
**Interviewer:** Wise words, Minouche! Lastly, how do you and René reconnect after a tough day or period?
**Minouche:** We make an effort to spend quality time together, whether it’s watching a movie, cooking, or just talking. It’s essential to prioritize those moments where we can reconnect and share that lightness again. It reminds us of why we’re together in the first place.
**Interviewer:** Thank you so much for sharing your insights, Minouche! Your approach to marriage amidst challenges is truly inspiring.
**Minouche:** Thank you! I appreciate the opportunity to share our story. I hope it resonates with others navigating their relationships in the spotlight or just behind closed doors.