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Mikayla Nogueira Opens Up About Husband Cody Hawken’s Struggle with Addiction
The popular makeup artist shares her personal journey as Cody enters rehab, highlighting the complexities of addiction and recovery.
By Archyde News Journalist
In a deeply personal revelation, Mikayla Nogueira, the Massachusetts-based social media influencer and makeup artist, has publicly addressed her husband Cody Hawken’s battle with substance abuse. After months of online speculation, Nogueira confirmed on Friday, April 4, that Cody is currently in rehab. The announcement came via a raw and emotional TikTok video, were she spoke candidly about the challenges they have faced.
“My husband Cody is in rehab and I’m ready to talk about it,” Nogueira said in the video. Showing both vulnerability and strength, she added, “Cody’s story is not mine to share, but he has given me his blessing to talk about it today.”
The Reality of Relapse
While applying her makeup, a signature of her online presence, Nogueira explained that “relapsing is a pattern in the recovery process – not a failure.” she than detailed thetimeline of events. According to Nogueira, Cody relapsed on drugs in January 2024, and again on alcohol in April 2024.
Nogueira continued, often fighting back tears, “I’m not new to addiction or addicts, but what I am new to is marrying one. And putting on a brave face the entire year of 2024 was the hardest thing I have ever done in my life.”
This statement echoes the sentiments of millions of Americans who grapple with the hidden struggles of loving someone with an addiction. The Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration (SAMHSA) estimates that millions of families across the U.S.are affected by substance use disorders each year,highlighting the widespread nature of this issue.
Addiction as a Family Disease
Nogueira emphasized the far-reaching impact of addiction, stating that there’s a “reason addiction is known as a family disease.” She elaborated, “It doesn’t just impact the individual — it impacts everyone around them.” in 2024 she said she “faced some of the scariest nights of my life.”
She recounted, “I’m talking calling the police becuase I’m scared my husband is going to die. To anyone who has had a spouse or a family member who has struggled with addiction, you know what I mean when I say I didn’t know who that person was anymore.I felt like I had lost my husband.”
This experience is, unluckily, a common one. The National Institute on Drug Abuse (NIDA) recognizes the profound effects of addiction on families, often leading to emotional distress, financial strain, and fractured relationships. Resources like Al-Anon Family Groups offer support and guidance to those navigating these challenges.
Recognizing the severity of the situation, Nogueira made the difficult decision to separate from Cody temporarily. “I watched his addiction worsen and it became so hard in my home and I had to make the really difficult decision to remove Cody from our home,” she revealed. “He ended up getting his own apartment and I said,’You need to figure it out,’ as as much as I can try to get Cody to want to be sober he has to want to be sober. The addict is the one who has to get sober.” She continued, “No longer could I enable it, and I couldn’t be around it.”
A History of Sobriety
Nogueira revealed that she was aware of Cody’s past struggles with addiction before they married in July 2023. “When I met him he was living in sober living and he had just gotten out of rehab,” she explained. “He moved from Nevada to [Massachusetts] to go to treatment here and the only reason he stayed was as of me. Understand sobriety, like recovery, is not linear. Addiction is a disease and it’s very complex and unless you, yourself, or someone very close to you has struggled with addiction — it’s hard to understand.”
Nogueira’s experience highlights the ongoing nature of recovery. Even after completing rehab and maintaining sobriety, individuals can still face challenges and potential relapse triggers. Continued participation in support groups, therapy, and aftercare programs are crucial for long-term success.
Consider the story of *Recovery Unplugged*, a US-based addiction treatment center.
They are known for integrating music into their treatment programs. they’ve found that this method can help patients process emotions and connect with others, reducing the risk of relapse.
Resources and Support
Mikayla Nogueira’s decision to share her personal story is a courageous act that can definitely help break the stigma surrounding addiction. By speaking openly about her experiences, she is providing hope and encouragement to others who might potentially be facing similar challenges.
For those seeking help with addiction or mental health concerns, the following resources are available:
- 911: For immediate medical attention.
- 988 Suicide & Crisis lifeline: Provides 24/7,free and confidential support for people in distress.
- SAMHSA (Substance Abuse and mental Health Services Administration)