2023-11-09 01:37:44
In busy cities, many people suffer from emotional illness. Cao Minbao participated in the “Middle-aged Good Voice” competition and bravely made it to the top 12, ranking 11th. The 37-year-old Cao Minbao married a good husband and had a son and a daughter. She made up the word “good” and felt happy in the eyes of others. In fact, her life has fallen into low ebbs more than once, and her career has been unsatisfactory. After giving birth to her eldest son Lin Jingtao (Darius) in 2019, she suffered from anxiety disorder, which was so severe that she had hallucinations and almost had an accident. In addition to getting help from her family to get out of the predicament, she should be the most fortunate. There is a voice of self-help. Despite the painful experience she had gone through, she did not dare to blame others, but was grateful for the company of her family and friends.
On the surface, Cao Minbao, who has a cheerful personality, immediately denied this adjective when being interviewed by “Qingbao”. She frankly admitted that there were times when she was “buried”. Recalling the tragedy of his illness that year, he burst into tears when he mentioned his family. She said that her family was her “Achilles heel” and she was very grateful that she had always been surrounded by love and had family members who took good care of her and helped her get out of the predicament. She said: “I suffered from anxiety following giving birth. My wounds were inflamed and I needed to take mood medicine. At that time I was personally exhausted and mightn’t handle things. The medication made me in a bad physical and mental state, and because of the medication, my weight increased to more than 160 pounds! As a girl and an artist who emphasizes appearance, I completely accepted it at the time. Not to myself.”
During the most severe period of her illness, Cao Minbao had hallucinations and lost control, which made her feel scared. “There were so many scary scenes in her mind that she mightn’t control them at all! I live in a village house and have to go up and down stairs. I talk to my husband regarding it every day. 200 times, I asked him to hug the baby once morest the wall because I imagined that the baby would fall down the stairs…”
She was so afraid of something dangerous happening that she was even afraid to hug her son. She also tried to lose control of her emotions and break down and yell, “I’m screaming! I kept venting. I was afraid that I would do something stupid, so I asked my husband and mother to catch him at the same time.” Keep my hand, I can’t control myself from doing stupid things.” Fortunately, I have been growing up surrounded by the love of my family. No matter how bad the mood is, I don’t dare to have suicidal thoughts for fear of hurting my family’s heart. “I am almost unhappy. When you are confused and thinking regarding it, the first thing is not to hurt your mother or the family members. Your mother has always taught you well, and she has given you many children you love, so no matter how difficult it is, you must adjust your mood and take care of the people around you. People cannot be selfish, live for themselves, and cannot hurt the people they love. I also have to take care of my children and tell myself that I will get through any difficulties no matter what!”
Suffering from emotional illness, Cao Minbao did not complain regarding others. Instead, he was grateful that he was very happy. In addition to having a family, he was fortunate to have a good husband. At that time, her husband ignored herself and took care of her personally, which made her feel guilty. She recalled: “In order to keep me and my baby together, my husband spent two hours every day. At that time, he paid 120%. In order to keep my baby and me in the house, Falling down 300 times, it’s actually quite boring. At that time, he was eating very little but was the fattest, had some health problems and was swollen. I felt so sad when I saw him, having to go to this point to take care of my roommate.”
As for her friend Zhu Zhixian, she mightn’t see it and came to the rescue. He went directly to Cao Minbao’s residence in Yuen Long District and encouraged her to run and exercise. Later, he encouraged her to learn to drive, go out to the urban area to date friends, and re-establish a healthy social circle. Cao Minbao He said: “I haven’t wanted to see anyone for several years. Even my old friends Zhou Jipei and Zhu Zhixian have met once or twice. One time Zhu Zhixian saw me at home and said, “Don’t do too much with me. I go for a run, or just for fun. I just wanted to give it a try, and what a great result! I dropped from 160 to 130 pounds, and when I found out that I had a second child, I gained twice as much. I want to have more than one baby. , even though I have a second baby, I have become more positive personally.”
Cao Minbao has two sisters. In addition to the well-known “Miss Hong Kong” Cao Minli, there is also the very good-looking elder sister Cao Minzhi. The elder sister introduced her current husband to her younger sister and is the “matchmaker” between the two. Cao Minbao said that following she broke up with her ex-boyfriend, she moved to live with her ex-boyfriend, but her life was like a walking zombie. “I was heartbroken at the time. I lived in my sister’s house for two months, taking the two dogs that I had raised with me.” …I mightn’t even manage myself, I was so lost, so my sister introduced me to the boy. I slowly got over the trauma and planned my future.”
Cao Minbao has experienced many twists and turns. She has loved singing since she was a child. When she was young, she sang Wang Jie’s songs, which were catchy. When she grew up, she participated in singing competitions of all sizes. In addition to school competitions, she participated in the Hong Kong girl group “Cookies’ Trial” with Zhu Zhixian in 2003. At that time, Cao Minbao was the runner-up and had a chance to enter the industry. However, her mother felt that her daughter was too young and she had to focus on her studies first and then go to Australia to further her studies.
After returning to Hong Kong, she worked as a public relations officer in a hospital, and signed a contract with a record company to become a singer. She said: “In 2010, someone introduced me to an independent record company, and I released my first solo album. I changed my name to Cao Huilan, maybe she changed her name to Cao Huilan.” Oh no! After the album was released, the company took over, and the album was put on the shelves but there was no promotion. This was really the first low point in my life. I turned to work as a makeup artist, and met another Bole, who had been releasing audio albums for a few years. I’m so grateful. I thought I would never be able to sing once more and might only be a “Bathroom Diva”, but it turned out that someone would appreciate me and take notice of me. At the same time, I learned from my grandma. It’s really easy to enter the entertainment industry. Your life is at stake. Is there any grain in the sky? Does the star shine on you? Which way should I go?”
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There are gains and losses. Cao Minbao has made many true friends in the entertainment industry. When he was a host at Cable, he met Zhou Jipei. The two of them felt like “brothers”, sharing wealth and adversity, and they might express their feelings. He is regarding to enter the “mid-life crisis”, and Cao Minbao has his own way to deal with it. “When a person reaches middle age, when he still has the strength to pursue his dreams, he will pursue them. Even if there are negative comments, he will not forget his mentality. My husband lets me go out I just want to participate in “The Voice of Middle Ages”. I just want to live a happy life, have people around me healthy, and be blessed. This is a topic for the rest of my life. It is very important to let go of obsessions. Let go of obsessions and you will get everything. .” At the same time, he instills the message of love in the same way that mothers teach their daughters, hoping that when their children grow up, they will know how to love no matter what.
Written by: Wang Lianlian
Photography: He Jiaxian, Feng Kaiyi
Venue provided: The AIR (The ONE L16)
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