The Healing Power of a Letter: Lisa Nilsson’s Journey in SVT’s “My Truth”
Tells in SVT’s “My Truth”
Published 2024-10-10 18.08
Lisa Nilsson had enough and wrote letters to her perpetrators.
Then she got an apology.
– It was healing in the end, she says in “My truth”.
When Words Become Healing Tools
Imagine waking up one day and saying, “You know what? I’m going to draft some letters to those chaps who made my life difficult!” That’s essentially what Lisa Nilsson, the Swedish artist known for her powerful vocals, decided to do. At 54, she took a courageous step to pen letters to three men who had, in her words, “crossed the line.” Talk about putting pen to paper for a bit of emotional accountability!
Reflections in the Wake of #MeToo
In an era where many took a stand against misconduct through the #MeToo movement, Nilsson found herself reflecting on past trespasses. “When the abuses or situations took place, I was so paralyzed that I couldn’t speak up,” she confessed. I mean, isn’t it baffling how the adrenaline of survival can often leave us mute in the very moments we should scream? Instead of shouting, Nilsson walked away and filed it away – we’ve been there, haven’t we?
Strength in Vulnerability
Two of those letters made their way to their destinations. One was addressed to a physiotherapist – you know, just a casual relationship where boundaries were as clear as mud. When the interviewer, Kristian Luuk, asked if the guy had “pawed” at her, Nilsson didn’t miss a beat. “Yes, quite a bit actually.” You can almost picture her looking at the camera like she’s about to break into a stand-up routine: “You know, just your average Tuesday at the physiotherapy clinic!”
The Apology That Comforted
But here’s the kicker – Nilsson received a response. The man apologized and admitted to having felt remorseful for his past actions. “The answer was good, the answer was uplifting, so it was healing in the end,” she recounts. Healing? How refreshing! Imagine getting a heartfelt apology instead of a dodgy excuse – considering how often folks dodge accountability like it’s the latest dance craze!
Anticipation of the Unsent Letter
Though she hasn’t yet sent the third letter, Nilsson is giving herself time to prepare for the potential fallout. “I want to be completely in agreement with myself about what I expect to happen,” she noted. Wise choice, Lisa! It’s like gearing up for a first date – you’ve got to know your deal-breakers before you waste a good outfit! Expectation management can save hearts and… well, let’s be honest, much more!
The Takeaway
So, folks, what’s the takeaway from Nilsson’s enlightening episode on
SVT?
- Sometimes, writing letters can be as therapeutic as a weekend in the spa.
- If you’ve got something to say – say it! Just keep the delivery method within the realms of civil discourse.
- People can change! Well, unless we’re speaking about your notoriously late friend – let’s not hold our breath on that one.
If you haven’t tuned into SVT’s “My Truth,” I highly recommend it. It’s a reminder that confronting our past is just as important as the applause we get for our future. Remember, laughter can heal too, but sometimes a heartfelt letter is just what the doctor ordered!
Catch “My Truth” on SVT every Thursday – because if Lisa can find her voice, so can we!
