2023-11-17 06:26:00
My new husband and I are both people who have gone through a breakup. When I fell in love with my new husband, I thought that if we were together, we had to trust each other, so I told all my stories, including the story of my ex-husband who was often sickly jealous and brutal when I laughed or talked or went out with the opposite sex. I used to hold back to keep my children safe, but my ex-husband was not only jealous but also had an affair, so we broke up.
My new husband always thinks that there is no smoke without fire. My ex-husband’s bad treatment of his wife is first and foremost because of me. (illustration)
When we fell in love, my new husband was very sympathetic and saddened by my story, so I thought he was a man I might rely on. I saw that he was not jealous and abusive like my ex-husband, so I decided to move in together. The first few months of life were quite peaceful, I was secretly happy because following missing the boat once, I had found the destination of my life.
But in the end, I once once more gave my heart to the wrong place. My new husband started showing jealousy every time he called me and I didn’t pick up or came home late from work. Even though I explained that on the way I left the car in the trunk so I mightn’t hear him, but he still got angry for no reason. He also asked me to quit my job in the tourism industry to change to another job that requires less travel and contact with many people, especially men.
When I reacted to why he didn’t trust me like he did when he loved me, my husband said that all men are the same, jealousy and violence are natural. And he also asked the question that if there is no fire, how can there be smoke? My ex-husband treated his wife badly, first of all because of me. I was really hurt knowing I had made a mistake once more, but didn’t know how to get out. I had just gotten married and was divorced, surely everyone would consider me a spoiled woman. At that time, how might I live with people’s tongues? I’m so miserable and helpless with my life.
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