2024-09-04 01:43:00
Is it possible that if a couple’s relationship lasts for a long time, they will “hate love”?
Recently, a message appeared on social networks stating that spending too much time together will lead to boredom and laziness in “making love”, which can lead to infidelity. However, this problem is not impossible to solve. The important thing is that the two of you must find a common voice on “that matter”.
Pham Minh Ngoc, deputy chief physician of the Hanoi Gender Medicine Center, said that there are many reasons why couples are “lazy”, one of which is that couples live together for a long time, which makes their life boring. According to Dr. Ngoc, usually when you first meet each other or fall in love, you are both eager, passionate about love, and always nervous and excited about intimacy. However, as time goes by, the relationship will encounter the following problems, which is why the love between two people is no longer exciting. Specifically:
– Lack of freshness: Once you get used to each other, things can get boring without innovation in the relationship. We clearly know and imagine how “love” will happen, what stages it will include, how the other party will be stimulated, how long it will take, and in what space it will be familiar. We knew so much before it started that we didn’t have as much excitement, excitement and excitement.
It’s entirely possible for a couple to get bored after being together for a long time. Illustration photo.
– Life stress: Busy work and pressure to complete assigned tasks leave us feeling stressed and exhausted. Sometimes we have some time in the evening to take care of the kids, rest or use social networks. Sometimes, because families live in multiple generations and lack private space, over time we have no time to date, take care of ourselves, etc., which reduces sexual inspiration.
– Lack of communication: Failure to communicate openly and honestly about each other’s needs and desires can easily lead to misunderstandings and separation. Over time, couples tend to become less intimate. Hugs, kisses, and goodnight wishes are all gestures that strengthen connection and help us feel libido.
– Physiological changes: Age and other factors can affect the sexual desire of one or both partners. Over time, hormone levels in both men and women decrease, and the frequency of underlying conditions such as diabetes, hypertension, and metabolic disorders increases, further reducing sexual performance.
How to solve the problem?
Dr. Minh Ngoc says couples can eliminate boredom altogether by keeping their sexual relationships fresh and exciting. Specifically, couples can take some of the following measures:
– Open communication: Share your wishes, concerns, and feelings with the other person to understand them better. Try to maintain gestures and behaviors that show affection.
To prevent your relationship from becoming boring, both of you should share and create new things with each other. Illustration photo.
– Try new things: Explore new experiences in your sex life together. New love positions, new spaces, along with scents and clothing, can help you regain the inspiration for “love” after a date.
– Spend time together: Try to focus your personal time on the relationship between the two of you and don’t be distracted by external factors.
– Take care of your health: Make sure to have regular health checkups to detect and treat related illnesses.
When do you need to see a doctor?
Dr. Fan Mingyu said that when you both try to change your habits and lifestyle, and share candidly with each other, but still cannot improve your “sex”, you should see a doctor. Especially when encountering some of the following situations:
– Relationship problems due to male sexual dysfunction: erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation, decreased libido.
– Sexual dysfunction in the partner: decreased libido, decreased arousal (vaginal dryness), pain during intercourse.
– Sexual problems: Inability to insert the penis into the vagina.
– The above-mentioned diseases have a long duration (usually more than 3 months).
– Psychiatric consequences (anxiety, depression, disharmony), reproductive effects (delayed childbearing).
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