Lam and I have been in love since university, it’s been 9 years since we decided to get married. The two of them once broke up and fell in love with someone else, but following a while, they came back because they still needed each other. Deciding to be Lam’s wife, I was also very confused, because he asked me to live with my husband’s parents. Lam explained that he was alone at home, so he mightn’t go out.
Going back to Lam’s house to be a bride, living in the same house with my husband’s parents, I told myself to hold back to make everything peaceful. My husband’s parents are gentle and love their children, so I have nothing to criticize. But I’m afraid that no matter how good the husband’s parents are, living together for a long time will have something to choose at any time or at that time. Being a bride cannot avoid offending her husband’s parents.
The day before at home, I slept until 9-10am every weekend, and now I’m married, whether I work or not, I wake up at 6am. One day I cook breakfast, another day I clean the house. After staying for a week, I confided in my husband to send my mother 10 million monthly meals so that she might go to the market and help with food and water. My husband agreed because my parents stayed at home to make money to support me and my wife.
I tend to forget, or drop money, so I always use cards, not cash. I didn’t have cash to send to my mother, so I transferred and asked my sister-in-law who is a freshman at university to withdraw for her. My brother-in-law is quite gentle and loves me, so I can rest assured.
Sending my mother 10 million/month like that, but in the evening my wife and I came home from work and saw that my mother cooked all water spinach and roasted peanuts, thinking that she changed the meal, so I also didn’t mind. However, the 3rd meal, the whole family still ate rice so frugally. I was afraid not to ask, my husband was also afraid of my mother’s pride, so I tried to finish the meal. Bored and still hungry, I invited my husband out to eat more, he agreed.
The couple ate their fill and then returned, paying by card to me is a very familiar thing. However, when I saw the message from the bank deducting the money, the previous message I transferred to my brother-in-law shocked me. I trembled and said to my husband: “Brother, the other day I mistakenly transferred 10 million to 1 million to Miss Hoai. No wonder there are 1 million mothers who have to calculate, only can buy vegetables with peanuts and beans to eat. I blame the wrong mother “.
She thought I only transferred 1 million, so she just gave it to her mother. Because I’m a new bride, how much money to eat is up to my mother’s opinion. It’s just that grandparents don’t have enough money, so they just choose to buy food and daily activities. My mother was afraid to say nothing because she thought that my wife and I were still saving money for our business.
It was my fault, I quickly apologized to my mother and transferred the remaining 9 million to Hoai. But my husband stopped me, he told me that from now on, I will withdraw money to give to my mother, not through anyone. Mother and daughter say something to each other, but they are afraid not to say it and then it becomes a misunderstanding. I thought and told myself I would change and blamed myself for having wrong thoughts regarding my mother-in-law.
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According to Vietnamnet
