[인사이트] Reporter Kwon Gil-yeo = An elementary school kid who has difficulty making friends blamed himself and made the studio ‘My cub these days, like a golden child’ into a sea of tears.
On the followingnoon of the 22nd, Channel A’s ‘My cub these days is like a golden child’ broadcasted on the followingnoon of the 22nd, showed 10-year-old Geum-byeong and Eun-joo, who gave up making friends.
Geum didn’t talk at all at school, so she had no friends, and Eun became stiff because she was afraid when she was hanging out with many friends.
In particular, even when friends approached her to play ‘Ice Din’ together, Eun-joo showed a passive attitude and avoided it, saying, “I’m not good at it.”
However, it was not that Geum and Eun did not want to make friends.
Both of them said, “I think it would be good if there were only 10 friends” and “I don’t have many friends”, making it a pity.
Dr. Oh Eun-young said that children may be experiencing ‘Back to School Blue’ as non-face-to-face education increases due to the prolonged Corona 19 virus. This is a phenomenon in which children who have had irregular school attendance are afraid to return to school.
Dr. Oh Eun-young said, “Isn’t it difficult to talk with strangers? If you wait, they can approach you. It will be necessary to match the child’s emotional pace. People say talking is called conversation, but it is learned through experience. Family helps It’s something we have to give and put a lot of effort into,” he advised.
In fact, it is reported that Geum-gyeong refused to go to school.
Even during the ‘talk in your heart’ that day, Geum-joo continued to be skeptical of interpersonal relationships, making the viewers heartbroken.
“All my friends know that I don’t talk. I gave up on making friends. I can’t imagine having so many friends. Mom is my best friend,” he said pessimistically.
Eun-joo also mightn’t hide her fear of making friends. When asked, ‘What makes you uncomfortable,’ he said, “You don’t understand what I’m saying. I want to have 100 friends. I want to play with you, but I can’t talk. I’m embarrassed. I’m nervous because I’m upset.”
Sadly, Eun-joo was even blaming herself for not being able to make friends. In response to the question, ‘What would you want to be if you were born once more?’, Eunji said, “I want to be born as a normal child. Mom and Dad don’t have to suffer. I want to live a happy life.”
MC Shin Ae, who was watching this in the studio with a VCR, also showed a tearful look.
Shin Ae-ra said, “I know that I am different, and I think that I am making it difficult for my mother and father.”
Eun-gyeong’s mother said, “Actually, I scolded him a lot when he was young because he didn’t understand. So he still remembers that time a lot. My mother scolded me terribly.”