Every time I see my 3 daughters in the house, I feel a little moved because I am the head of the family, so every time I go back to my hometown with my wife and 3 children, I cannot avoid being teased by my relatives. Especially in the future, the worship of the incense and smoke of the ancestral church will need a son who is still worried regarding it. Daughter then who does not get married!
Unfortunately, the economy of my wife and I is not rich now, raising 3 children has to be torn and patched, how can I dare to have more children. And that’s not as important as giving birth to another motherfucker?
A few months ago, when I went back to my hometown to repair the ancestral church, the uncles in them had a little yeast in their bodies and began the eternal song regarding having to give birth to a son. When I heard it, I was also annoyed so I stood up.
Who said I can’t have a son? My oldest son is 10 years old this year and nothing more.
After I finished speaking, everyone was silent, I myself was startled by what I had just said, because this was a long time ago no one told anyone but absolutely never mentioned it.
More than ten years ago, before marrying my current wife, I also had a previous wife. My marriage with her lasted only 8 months.
We didn’t do the marriage registration, so when she left, there was no problem. I thought at first that she was just sulking and would come back soon, but she never came back.
At that time, she was 7 months pregnant.
I am a boy from a province, and my ex-wife is a Hanoi girl. She was born and raised in golden velvet, so we have a big difference in all aspects. However, she volunteered to follow me out in a rented shack, even though over 20 years of her life she hardly had to do anything in the house.
My mother doesn’t like her at all, and conversely, my wife’s family is not pleasing to me, but because the girls are older, they have never done anything too harsh to my family.
Until that evening, we had a little quarrel regarding the trivialities of daily life, until now I can’t remember exactly what it was. I pointed at my ex-wife and said she was the kind of parent who didn’t know how to raise them. She got up, carried her pregnant belly, passed the car and drove to her parents’ house.
The next day, my wife’s parents called to ask me to come pick up my wife and children, but I flatly refused and said that if you have legs, you can come back on your own.
I still think that sooner or later she will come back, why do I have to go to the water to pick up my wife? For her to jump on top of me later?
But until the day she gave birth to my son, she still did not have any contact with me. More than 1 year later, she still has not heard from me and my new lover is also my wife now pregnant, so I completely let the story of my ex-wife and son in the past.
For a while following giving birth, my ex-wife probably didn’t have an easy time because she had to raise the child alone, every time someone told me how hard she was, I was a little gloating. Don’t tell me I’m too much, the cause of everything is her stubbornness. How can any woman get married and then leave her mother’s house like that?
A few years later, my wife and I gave birth to our second daughter. At that time, my ex-wife’s life was also stable, she found a job in her profession, and my son was grown and healthy. At that time I heard rumors that she had found someone new. Hearing that, I just sneered, with that unforgiving personality, how can I last with anyone.
When my 3rd daughter was born, she and the new person have been together for nearly 4, 5 years. Together they bought a new house, bought a car, and often traveled around. Many people told me that the other man spoiled her very much, they were much happier than I might have imagined.
A few days ago, I happened to meet my ex-wife with a new man and my 10-year-old son. This is the first time I have met my son since he was born. The boy is only 10 years old, but he is almost as tall as his mother, chubby and white and looks like he will grow up to be very handsome. He quickly carried the bag for his mother. He even called the other man his father.
Seeing the image of my ex-wife beautiful and happy, my son growing up so obediently, I am not satisfied. If she already has someone new, should she also give me my son? What should I do to get my ex-wife back to my son?