Predestination outside marriage
After I got married, I still mightn’t cut off my lover. I thought this was going to be the most secret relationship of my life, which would be hidden forever, but no, paper can’t wrap fire, somehow, my husband found out very quickly.
In that situation, to be honest, I thought the marriage was over. My husband is an arrogant man, with an illustrious family in a province, how can he endure my betrayal.
But strangely enough, he didn’t ask for a divorce. In other words, my husband is generous to forgive, as long as I am devoted to the family.
My husband generously forgave him even though he found out that his wife was having an affair (Artwork: Sohu).
Not long following, I found out I was pregnant. I knew the baby wasn’t my husband’s, but I tried to convince him that it was his.
I’m pregnant, my husband takes care of me for everything. He is so gentle that I think that even if the child is not his, he will accept it and our family will be warm from now on.
Husband filed for divorce
I gave birth to a son. To be honest, I didn’t see the child as my husband and was really worried. Yet my husband still has no doubts.
Time flies, my son has grown up. He studied normally, failed college, and fell in love with a woman a few years older than him. I don’t agree that he is in love like that, but he is determined to marry someone.
I am extremely sad. If he doesn’t pass the university, he can still take the exam next year, he should enjoy his time in school like his peers, enjoy a normal love relationship with younger girls, there’s no hurry , why does he have to marry such a woman.
My husband said that his child is grown and has his own opinion, parents should not interfere. When my husband says this, it’s as if he energizes his son to oppose me. The son that I wholeheartedly cared for all my life, is now arguing with me to defend his opinion. I am lonely and helpless. If I don’t agree to let him marry this woman, he will still live with that person somewhere else, completely away from me.
I was afraid of losing my baby so I agreed.
My 20 year old son got married. On my son’s wedding night, my husband brought out a form and asked his wife to sign it. He wants a divorce. He said he had known for a long time that he was my son with his lover.
Cruel revenge
I asked my husband why he didn’t expose me from the beginning, why didn’t he get a divorce at that time, but now he has two hairs and is thinking of leaving me. He smiled and said, “Why do I have to get a divorce? That would be perfect for my family of three. Don’t I realize how much I love my son, pampering him to the fullest. He mightn’t get through college and even married an older wife when he mightn’t even take care of himself. He mightn’t tell right from wrong, his whole life would be like that.”
Hearing what my husband said, I collapsed. Unexpectedly, he harbored a great hatred for my mistakes in my youth.
We divorced but my husband’s revenge didn’t stop there. On the day of the court, he cried and told my son that he loved him very much, but that he was my child with his lover, not his blood. After so many years of being together, it was unexpected that it was not the father and son that caused him a lot of heartache.
Unable to accept such a fact, my son turned to resent his mother. Since my husband was always a good father to him, he took out all his frustrations on me. He didn’t want to look at my face and say he would be filial to the man who had always treated him like his own son.
I want to explain it to my child but I don’t know how. What my husband said is true, but the nature of the matter is not like that. I know how to justify now when my son blocked my contact? I don’t want to get to this age and get divorced by my husband and lose my kids.
I have caused a great deal of pain to my husband, but is it too cruel for him to raise such hatred for 20 years and then pay me both capital and interest, causing me to lose everything?
