Even though I have 2 university degrees and am fluent in foreign languages, after giving birth, I still took time off from work to stay at home to look after the children. I have twins, so taking care of the baby takes up most of my daily time. Therefore, the domestic economy depends entirely on my husband’s salary of just over 10 million. Fortunately, he is a psychopath, never taking his wife’s job at home to take care of children to torment his wife. My husband gives me all my salary every month in joy. I am very grateful to you for this.
A few days ago, my cousin came to my house to play, giving 2 million dong to the two children. She sat and listened to me tell about her difficult life, having to be thrifty to the maximum. Then she sighed, saying that I am fluent in a foreign language and staying at home is a waste of energy. My husband is also talented but he is tied up in a company with no future promotion.
Suddenly, she asked me and my wife if I wanted to work abroad? Her daughter is working in a company specializing in accepting Japanese laborers. If my wife and I agree, she will ask her daughter to help us go to Japan to work for 3 to 5 years. The money earned during that time was enough for us to build a house, start a business and have a prosperous life later.
My cousin sat down and told all kinds of good things about labor export that made my husband satisfied. When she came back, my husband asked me if I wanted to go to work with him. I disagree because I plan to return to work when my child turns 2 years old. Anyway, I still prefer working in the country than going abroad. I don’t want to live away from my children, away from my family.
I told my husband that he could go abroad alone and return to my mother and children 3 years later, but he refused. He said during the time apart, he did not trust me enough. If I couldn’t stand the loneliness and looked for another man, wouldn’t his suffering become futile?
I talked about labor export with my parents, my mother also had the same thought as me. She wanted me to stay to take care of two young children, and my husband went abroad to work for a while. Otherwise, both husband and wife will stay in the country and wait for me to apply for a job again, then the economy will be more stable. It is worth mentioning that my husband kept reminding me and urging me to make a dossier to work abroad with him. I left it to my grandmother and grandmother to take care of me, the couple went away for 3-5 years and then came back economically, and the children were at school age at that time. Hearing my husband’s plan made me bewildered. As such, we are too irresponsible to our children. Now I don’t know how to decide?