2023-12-06 10:37:00
25 years ago, consuming series the way we do today was worthy of futuristic fiction. Before the platforms streaming burst into the market by making hundreds of titles available to their subscribers on demandthe greatest happiness as a fan of the series came from a neighborhood video store where I found for the first time the DVDs with the complete seasons of Friends.
I was finally going to be able to see the first episode! As much as I tried, by then I had not yet had the luck to tune in to that episode on cable and as a declared fan of the story I felt that watching it was almost an obligation. The term had not yet been invented, but that day I experienced my first serial marathon, and the happiness was complete.
I never had a favorite “friend.” In all of them I found something charming, hilarious or attractive, which drove me to watch the chapters over and over once more, until I was able to memorize their lines. Chandler’s humor and liveliness, Monica’s obsessions, Phoebe’s brazenness, Ross’s sensitivity, Joey’s immaturity, Rachel’s egocentrism, all the characters had something that made them unique and with which I might connect emotionally.
There are still days when I find myself with my friends exemplifying situations from our daily lives with memorable scenes from the series, or we tell ourselves that we are in “Phoebe mode” or “Monica mode”, when we find ourselves more “hung up” than usual, or with our obsessions on the surface.
Behind the easy jokes, or the humor with double meanings for which many claim that the series would be “incorrect” today, its plot addresses moral, work, family, friendship, economic and love dilemmas that, even if the years pass, continue. current.
Friends It was one of the first fictions that, although superficially, as some insist, incorporated taboo topics that at the time were far from being part of the media agenda. Just to name a few: Ross’s wife who asks for a divorce because he falls in love with another woman. Chandler has a transgender mother. Phoebe undergoes treatment to conceive and give birth to her brother’s children. Monica maintains a loving relationship with her father’s best friend and later, being in a relationship with Chandler, she suffers from not being able to get pregnant and together they begin a long adoption process, which culminates when Erica, a young woman who carries out an unsuccessful pregnancy. desired, gives them his son for adoption. Rachel becomes pregnant and suffers the contradictions and fears that many women experience during pregnancy, but of which little is mentioned in the rosy story regarding motherhood, predominant for years.
Lightly, better, worse, with humor through, Friends It opened the doors to many discussions regarding friendship and love, and put me in contact with current dilemmas, but which at the time were not discussed on screen. Friends It was, and is, part of my life, and I appreciate it.
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