When in the love stage, maybe men will pamper and yield to you almost unconditionally, but when entering marriage, living together for a long time with many responsibilities and obligations, this requires Both must find ways to cultivate and maintain common happiness.
A wife has 3 small things below, not only in her marriage the more her husband loves her, but also in her work and private life.
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1. Calculate the small “bag of dong”
Enthusiasm, caring for people around, helping people is a good thing, but if it becomes a generous personality, it should not be at all.
Whatever happens in the husband’s family, the problems of the in-laws, or as simple as that of the neighbors around the house, if you always interfere even with good intentions, it will only bring regarding trouble in the end.
Having a small amount of money, not meddling in things that are not related to her, not interfering with things that others don’t ask for, such a wife will be less marketed. In addition, you also have more time to spend with your family, husband and children.
Such troubles can cause the couple’s feelings to crack, the relationship between the bride and her husband’s family is affected, thereby harming family happiness.
2. Small calculation
A wise wife will not let others “bully” excessively, dare not stand up and fight for her rights before her husband and her husband’s family. However, if the wife calculates too much, the details are fragmented, not only the husband’s family but also the husband himself feels uncomfortable with his wife.
After all, life has time and once more, a long-term relationship, we need to think regarding the other.
Don’t be too calculating little by little, giving now can help you get more in the future. Behaving generously and generously will make you a good wife and a likable daughter-in-law.
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3. Small suspicion, jealousy
Excessive suspicion and jealousy will even kill love. It is no wonder that people say that in love, they must trust each other. Always living in suspicion, where your husband goes, does not feel secure, interrogation “interrogation” bit by bit only makes you become a wife who likes to control.
No husband wants to live in such a suffocating “cage” because of his wife’s suspicions.
Let the wife let the doubts in her heart be small, learn to trust her husband. However, that does not mean blind trust, but a wise wife will only question it when there are clear signs and evidence. In this way, you will be respected by your husband, and even more self-aware to deserve your wife’s trust.