The original PO’s father passed away, and she did not go to work in mourning. (schematic/pixabay)
In the face of the death of a loved one, it is better to continue to live despite the sadness. Recently, a netizen said that following her diagnosis, her body became very tired, and just when her father passed away, a bunch of people told her to go to work quickly, but her father hadn’t done it for 49 days, “He’s my dad! Not a dead puppy!”
The original PO recently posted on the Facebook group “Burning Resentment Commune”, “After getting over the new crown, it becomes very easy to get tired! I know I have to work! But my dad hasn’t done it on the 49th! A bunch of people will only call me to hurry up. Go to work.” Everyone told her to let go and go to work first. “If you want me to let go, don’t go to worship and go to work, or I’ll just make excuses, and I’m really angry.”
After this article was exposed, netizens left messages one following another, “My dad left and I didn’t even have time to go to the funeral. I didn’t do the first seven, the last seven, and I continued to work. The death of my father is not the reason why you didn’t work for 49 days.” After 49 days? Where have you been, what have you helped?”, “What does the 49th have to do with going to work? You can do it at the same time! You still have to live and eat when you’re gone.”
Some netizens said, “You haven’t worked for a long time? Why do people around you keep urging? There must be a reason, calm down and think regarding it, and think in a different way, it will be better”, “There should be no one watching now. 3 years of filial piety! Few people have been guarding Qiqi for 49 days.”
It is understood that Taiwan’s funeral customs will “do seven” following the death of a loved one. The ceremony is held every 7 days, a total of 7 times, but now most people only do the first seven (the 7th day) and the full seven (the 49th day) ), the rest will shorten the time, and some bereaved families even only do the first seven.
