Every time my husband gives me a gift, I don’t feel happy, but I feel sorry for the money.
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When I was still in love, I liked my husband because of his liberal and romantic nature. He often gives me surprise gifts. Looking at those things, I feel that he loves me more.
After getting married, the husband still often buys gifts for his wife. At first I enjoyed it, but then I found it unnecessary waste. The gifts my husband bought such as flowers, shoes, lipstick, perfume, etc., it doesn’t matter if I have it or not. I still prefer my husband to stop buying to give money to his wife.
But every time my husband says that married life sometimes has to be a little romantic to be interesting. It’s okay to give money to me on weekdays, can’t I also give money to my wife on holidays?
From the day they got married, every year when receiving the Tet bonus, the husband also bought his wife a certain gift. Sometimes it’s a handbag, sometimes it’s an expensive dress or a dresser. This year, I told my husband not to buy any more gifts for his wife, to put the bonus into savings. My husband agreed, so I believe he can do it.
Yesterday, when I was taking things to the car to bring the whole family home to celebrate Tet, I saw a gift bag in the back seat. I asked my husband, he said he saw my old phone so he bought a new one. I was stunned when I learned that the phone was worth 50 million.
He said a few days ago, he saw his wife browsing new phones online. So he decided to spend his entire bounty on it. When my husband said that, I got angry and threw the phone back. I see a colleague has a new phone, so I went to check the price, but there was no need to buy it.
The old phone is still in good condition, I have no need to buy a new one. Why don’t you ask your wife a question to see if you like it? Just buy it and force your wife to use it? It’s very difficult to earn money, why doesn’t my husband know how to save? Then when there is a need to get money to use it.
I’m really stuck, don’t know what to say so that my husband knows how to spend properly?
According to Vietnamese Women
