2023-09-25 18:47:00
Making love in public, what you need to know
In a car, an elevator, on the beach or in a forest… The fantasy making love in a public place is a classic with several advantages. But what does the law say? What precautions should be taken so that the cavalcade does not turn into a flop? The point with Emmanuel Faure, sex therapist and psychotherapist for couples and individuals.
Why do you want sex in a public place? Advantages
“If your daily life sometimes seems normalized, sanitized, marked out without any real fantasy, why not introduce a little new and unique sensationss by daring to make love somewhere other than in your bed or on the living room sofa?” asks the sex therapist, Emmanuel Faure. By taking the risk of the unexpected, far from hyper-control, your love story might, in indeed, take off! “Some, having tested it, have since made it a way of life and any opportunity is now a good opportunity to take the plunge” adds Emmanuel Faure. Details on the reasons that can motivate us to dare:
- Firstly there is the novelty : “The change of scenery can help break the routine and bring novelty to sex life, which can be stimulating for the couple” indicates Emmanuel Faure.
- The excitement of the unknownof the forbidden: engaging in an intimate activity in an unusual place can increase excitement and desire while intensifying passion.
- Unexpected. “Surprising your partner who is not expecting you to propose to them in this or that public place can bring charm and spice up the relationship” explains Emmanuel Faure, also a couples therapist.
- Creativity : Looking for unusual places for intimacy requires creativity and planning, which can be stimulating for both partners.
- The adrenaline : The idea of potentially being surprised or caught in the act can intensify the sexual experience and level of arousal.
- The connection : “The intimacy of the unusual place can allow partners to feel even closer to each other. The shared moment will then become an act of emotional and physical connection, thus strengthening emotional bonds” continues Emmanuel Faure , sex therapist. These moments can also constitute unique, intense and memorable moments and help to forge strong memories in the history of the couple who will then be able to remember them with pleasure.
- Senses awakened : the unusual environment (in public) can stimulate the senses through its particular atmosphere, by listening to unusual sounds (birds, wind, waves, restaurant noise, etc.) or by discovering new sensations (grain of sand, branches, promiscuity of places…)
- Feeling of freedom : making love in a public place can give you a feeling of letting go, far from the constraints and responsibilities of daily life. This allows you to fully concentrate on the present moment.
- The aesthetic dimension : “The beauty that surrounds you in these public places (landscape, historical monuments, waterfalls, etc.) can add a romantic dimension to the experience” indicates the therapist.
Ideas for places to make love in public (bar, restaurant, nature, forest, store, street, elevator…)
A street, a forest, a beach, a parking lot but also places accessible to the public (toilets in shopping centers, restaurants, bars, etc.); hotels, cinema; public buildings (hospitals, schools, administrations, etc.), businesses (fitting rooms) without forgetting workplaces, or even public transport (trains, planes, etc.) are all possibilities available to you.
Unusual places to make love in public in Paris?
Paris, the romantic city par excellence, does not lack nooks and crannies for making love in public but in complete privacy. Love hotels where you can rent a room for just an hour like at the Love Hôtel (88 rue Saint-Denis (1e)) are an option. Just like the places of study (botanical garden of the Faculty of Pharmacy of Paris (6th), libraries…), the green spaces during quiet hours (by Monceau, Jardin des Plantes…) or even the toilets of adults hotels and restaurants.
How to avoid getting caught while having sex in a public place?
- Prepare the terrain : to avoid being caught in the middle of sexual intercourse, we will scout out the locations in advance, checking the viewing angles but also the times when there are fewer people.
- To protect yourself : to avoid unwanted pregnancies and the risk of transmission of STIs (sexually transmitted infections), remember to take condoms with you, especially if you have sex with an occasional partner.
- Skip the foreplay :if at home, in a bed for example, you can indeed take your time, in a public place (park, restaurant toilets, etc.), it will be better to go to the essentials and therefore indulge in quick sexe.
- To be Discret : stealth and silence are the key words of public sex.
- Wear suitable clothing : it will be easier to make love if the woman wears a skirt or dress that can be easily lifted rather than tight jeans or a jumpsuit that must be pulled down completely to access the genitals. A long coat is another sexy and practical solution to accommodate both partners.
Making love in public: the limits of the couple when you are not at home
In a world of all-out consumption, suffering has appeared corresponding to the obligation to enjoy at all costs. Emmanuel Faure, sex therapist.
“So making love in public is yes, provided of course that the partners involved both agree with this practice.” You would have understood it, no sex without consent, and whatever the place.
What are the risks of making love in a public space? Is this punishable by law?
The offense of sexual exhibition is an offense punishable by article 222-32 of the Penal Code which provides that “sexual exhibition imposed in view of others in a place accessible to public view is punishable by one year imprisonment and a fine of 15,000 euros” (source 1).
Is making love in a car parked on a public road also regulated?
Stopping in a parking lot or on the side of a roadway should not make you lose sight of the fact that you are above all on public property. Sexual exhibition imposed in view of others in a place accessible to public view is, as mentioned above, punished by one year of imprisonment and a fine of €15,000 (source 1).
Having sex while driving is also punishable. We would be talking here regarding lack of control of the vehicle, framed by article R412-6 of the Highway Code (source 2): “Any moving vehicle or any combination of moving vehicles must have a driver. The latter must, At all times, adopt prudent and respectful behavior towards other users of roads open to traffic. In particular, they must exercise increased caution towards the most vulnerable users.”
Warnings said, just get started (or not)!
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