2024-04-05 15:44:25
To help a man reach the 7th heaven, there is no magic recipe. But, when it comes to sexuality, a few little “tricks” can make pleasure easier. And there’s no need to take out costumes, sex toys or immerse yourself in role play, caressing your partner’s erogenous zones is so sensual that sometimes it doesn’t take much for him to reach orgasm! The key to male pleasure often lies in knowing the other person’s body.
Giving pleasure to a man can be learned
There is no secret, giving pleasure can be learned. And in several ways: there is certainly practice, but knowing a few little technical tips and tricks can also help you achieve your goals… Who has never wondered: how does the male orgasm work? How to give a man oral sex? How to give him a memorable orgasm? What is its weak point? When we make love, is ejaculation synonymous with orgasm? For each gender question, there are simple, practical and easy-to-find answers. But there is also a much more suggestive and personal part to which we cannot answer.
Because the key to giving pleasure often lies in the fact of know yourself sexually and his partner. Knowing what you like and what you want is essential to having fun… and sharing it! Especially since, sometimes, we can (a little selfishly) want to have fun without (too) thinking regarding the other. And then there are men and there is her man. And to be sure to please your man, there is only one rule: you have to know how to listen to him and, sometimes, pull things out of his nose a little to discover his preferences in terms of sex and make your relationship move towards new sensual horizons. If some tips may seem universal, nothing obliges Monsieur to like this or that thing. On the contrary. So, rather than illustrating in detail the full extent of our knowledge regarding sex, we make sure to lend him an attentive ear.
Not a fan of gadgets and other naughty fantasies? We can arouse pleasure without robbing the sex shop from the corner and please her man with next to nothing. And it is not the fans of tantric massages who will contradict us! Although they can be done by a professional, they are also popular with couples. And for good reason, the little peculiarity of tantric massages is that they are practiced naked! Although their primary objective is not to give sexual pleasure, tantric massages are very sensual and can awaken sensuality within the couple, eroticize their daily lives and boost their sexuality. Without any accessories or clothing: long live erotic massages! And if giving pleasure with your hands is nothing revolutionary, knowing where and how is sometimes more complex. The “safest” thing is still to concentrate on the erogenous zones.
What are the most sensitive areas in men?
Stimulated, erogenous zones are parts of the human body that can produce sensations of erotic pleasure, sometimes even reaching orgasm! Most men have common erogenous zones. And, contrary to popular belief, the penis is not their only sensitive point! Here are the areas of the male body most sensitive to caresses:
How to caress the nipples:
As with women, men’s nipples are an erogenous zone. And for good reason: the skin is particularly thin and very sensitive! Like us, they don’t necessarily appreciate being pulled or crushed (unless they have sadomasochistic tendencies!)… The ideal is to caress them gently with your fingertips. . Some men like it, others hate it and others absolutely love it! It’s better to watch for reactions to the first caresses to avoid getting bogged down!
The penis: The male organ is made up of 3 parts, from bottom to top: the base, the shaft and the glans, protected by the foreskin. It is the glans, its crown and the frenulum which are most likely to be erogenous, because they are made up of thousands of sensors. And sensual caresses of the penis can often bring the partner to orgasm and ejaculation (but not always, once more there are no universal rules!). To give him pleasure? No need to turn into a mechanical masturbator! We can go more subtly, vary the pace and think regarding sensuality more than performance!
How to caress the testicles?
Many men like their partner to caress them. If we hesitate, we can subtly suggest that Monsieur show us how to do it by borrowing his hand. After all, he is undoubtedly the one who knows best how to have fun. If you set your sights on this area, you must keep in mind that the testicles are a very sensitive area… and that they must therefore be handled with care! We are careful not to hold them too hard or for too long; in general, the most pleasant caresses are rather furtive and barely touch them…
The perineum : yes yes, men also have a perineum. It is located between the scrotum (the base of the penis and testicles) and the anus. In reality, this is where there is a bone in contact with the prostate and stroking the perineum will help stimulate the man’s prostate. For maximum pleasure, do not hesitate to caress this small, very sensitive area… but you go gently, especially at the beginning, and even more so to avoid rushing your partner.
How to caress the prostate?
The prostate – also called the P-spot – is one of the most sensitive areas in men. If we can stimulate it indirectly via caresses on the perineum, we can also go more frankly. To do this, you must slide a finger into your partner’s anus, approximately up to the second phalanx and having previously lubricated it for maximum comfort. By bending your finger a little inwards, you should feel a small ball the size of a golf ball, this is the prostate! We can then stimulate it by gently caressing it or applying small pressures… Generally it is not necessary to linger there for hours (especially as we risk irritating the prostate!) and the Orgasm occurs following a few caresses on this very sensitive area! Here once more, some men like it, others are more reluctant and change their minds while experimenting and others are downright once morest it, so we think regarding the notion of consent and we only go there with the agreement of our partner. !
The buttocks: they contain a lot of nerve endings, so you might as well not deprive yourself. In addition, we remember that the fold area between the buttocks and the thighs is sensitive…
The pubis : the area is sensitive, and when you are at this level, it means you are getting closer to the penis. Obviously between the stimulation of the sensitive area and its imagination, the excitement is there!
The inside of the thighs: like at the pubis, the skin of this area close to the penis is quite thin and particularly sensitive… So we don’t hesitate to caress it with our fingertips and linger there a little to increase the desire . For the same reason and depending on men, the area of the earlobes, the inside of the elbows and the inside of the knees can also be erogenous zones in your partner.
Neck : the skin on the neck is delicate. we don’t hesitate to titillate her by massaging the base of the hair to raise the temperature!
Obviously, these are only gender generalities. Like us, men are all different, and what excites one does not necessarily excite the other… And to find out what they really like best is often to talk regarding it. It remains to find the right moment.
To go further, “Je sexopositive” by Alexandra Hubin and Caroline Michel. Editions Eyrolles, €11.90.
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