My mother-in-law forced me to do many things, harshly disparaging her daughter-in-law (Artwork)
When I returned to be a bride, I did not receive the sympathy of my mother-in-law, who was meticulous, obstinate and seemed to despise the daughter-in-law’s family. From the moment they fell in love, going to the boyfriend’s house to play, he received his mother’s disdainful attitude. Foreseeing the difficulties I had to face, but because of my deep love, I had to accept the marriage, which I also predicted would be turbulent.
Living in the situation of being a bride-to-be, I am happy because my husband loves me, and I am sad and miserable when sharing with me because my mother-in-law didn’t like her daughter-in-law from the beginning, so now I have the opportunity to suppress it. Every day, I turn off my head to take care of everything, go out to earn hard money and then come home to serve my husband’s family, everyone is fastidious and lazy regarding housework because I consider it to be my own business. .
I tried a lot but mightn’t make my mother-in-law satisfied, she was free to trade melons and pears with the neighbors, just to slander the daughter-in-law of the poor, rural family, get married just to find shelter, extract money. money for my biological parents… I work hard, but my mother-in-law criticizes me for being clumsy, lazy, refusing to do anything all day. I’ve been married for less than a year, but I feel like I’m getting old, wilting because of sadness.
This year I celebrate the first Tet at my husband’s house, but I don’t feel any excitement, I just look forward to the day when I go back to my parents’ house and enjoy Tet fully in every sense. But at my husband’s house, I do all the year-end tasks assigned by my mother-in-law. She made me go buy food and drink to prepare the year-end table. The organizer of the festival regularly, many guests from far away to visit their hometown by the way come to play…
Almost every day, I had to go to the market, make dinner and eat, I was the only one to clean and wash the dishes. I mightn’t even eat because I didn’t have time to sit down, my mother-in-law told me to go get that, get that, everyone finished eating, went to drink water, sat down to talk, but I still did not stop working in disparagement, complaining regarding my children. strawberry with guests. While washing the dishes, I heard my mother-in-law shouting: “Where’s the daughter-in-law, the guests come back but don’t know how to say hello? Lazy, where did you hide?”.
Working at home is not enough, my mother-in-law also forced me to go to serve my cousin’s table, even her best friend had a job and “wants” me to go to work. The other day, I might clearly hear my mother-in-law telling others regarding me: “How much money does it cost to organize a wedding and bring my daughter-in-law home? , it’s very embarrassing. It’s okay, it works all the time without feeling sick, complaining, so just let it do it.”
Yesterday, my mother-in-law called me privately and told me: “This year’s first New Year’s Eve at my husband’s house, I have to stay to celebrate Tet, I can’t go back to my motherland. When a new daughter-in-law goes, hurry up and say hello, hurry up with her hand. Do the housework, help with the table. From now until the New Year, there are a lot of things to do, work hard to stay healthy. If you stay up all night and play and get sick, don’t blame it.”
When my mother-in-law said that, I felt sad, I also want the couple to return to their hometown to play, visit relatives to thank them for helping to make the wedding a smooth and successful event. My mother-in-law forced me to do many things, harshly disparaged my daughter-in-law and even forbade me to return to my hometown to play Tet. What must I do to make my mother-in-law love, not pressurize and create conditions for me to visit my birth parents this Tet?
