Daughter-in-law responds to father-in-law’s joke with ‘apple cider’: ‘If you ask a man to do chores, he’ll do something else'[e글e글]｜Dong-A Ilbo

ⓒNews 1 The story of a daughter-in-law responding to her father-in-law’s constant inappropriate jokes with cider was exposed, sparking sympathy from netizens.

Recently, an article titled “Eliminate the father-in-law who joked about my husband cheating” appeared on an online community. The author of the post, daughter-in-law A, shared her conversation with her father-in-law. She said: “I only tolerated it three times.”

Mr. A said: “This was a meal I had with my in-laws at the beginning of my marriage. “We hadn’t planned to buy food, but since they asked us to buy it, we bought it without a second thought,” she said. “Before paying, my husband asked me, ‘Can I buy this? ‘” “But I guess my father-in-law didn’t like my husband allowing me to do this,” she wrote. At that time, the father-in-law said to Mr. A: “If you give the groom less pocket money and force him with money, he will cheat. ” “Be careful,” he said. Mr. A said he did not respond and was just passing by.

The second time was three years after marriage, when Mr. A and his wife tried IVF to have a child. Mr. A said: “After several examinations, I began to gain weight due to the side effects of hormone drugs. “I didn’t tell my parents-in-law about the IVF, but when we met one day, they looked at me and asked me why I had gained so much weight. They said I looked like a wrestler and told me to take care of it, because if a woman gains weight, a man will cheat. “

Mr A said: “I explained it was a hormonal side effect and that I was doing IVF because I couldn’t have children, but she said I still needed to control it and said, ‘Well, then, I’m not going to do IVF and live like a DINK. “I told her I should spend time on myself, work on my diet and take care of my skin, but she just told me to do IVF,” he explained.

He said: “I put up with it about twice and then told my husband. My husband hated it when his father did that, too. Normally, if I say something crap, I’ll say something to my father right away. But are you an adult who’s willing to listen to your son? “So I wasn’t particularly mad at my husband,” she explained.

The last time the father-in-law made a joke was after the birth of the baby. A said, “I went to my parents-in-law’s house and the topic of childcare came up. My parents-in-law asked my husband if he helped take care of the baby and who put him to sleep when he woke up early in the morning. The groom did nothing, it was his wife who did everything. “Even in the early morning, my wife praised me and said she put all the babies to sleep,” he said.

Then the father-in-law said, “If you let your husband do all the housework and take care of the children, men will run away. Since the wife is at home, I have to do everything. “If a man wants to stay out of other things, his wife must be nice to him,” he joked.

Mr. A said, “I think we should stop here today so we don’t say anything more,” and asked her father-in-law, “You keep saying ‘My husband cheated on me and I’m starting another life. Have you ever cheated on me?”

“That’s what they say,” said the father-in-law. He replied, “Because men can do it, wives should take care of it.” But Mr. A said, “I don’t think so. It’s not just once or twice, but it happens constantly. Is my husband a leg of lamb when I’m in an affair? “Who are you having an affair with?” he asked stubbornly. Finally, the father-in-law said, “I’m sorry.” “I made a mistake,” he apologized.

But Mr. A said, “I can’t do it.” Something must have happened in the past. Otherwise, the smoke in the chimney would not be able to come out at all. “I have to call my parents to ask,” she said, pretending to doubt her husband. In response, the father-in-law said, “I’m really sorry. This is a joke, but you should understand it this way. He said he was embarrassed and asked, “Why did you call your parents?”

Finally, Mr. A said: Who would make such a joke? Or is your husband cheating on you now? Have you arranged another life? Now everyone knows, am I the only one who doesn’t know? I can never forgive Feng. This is a divorce. When I said, “I will raise the children,” the father-in-law said, “It was just a joke, so this won’t happen.” She apologized again, saying, “I’m sorry,” and the father-in-law’s inappropriate jokes reportedly stopped thereafter.

In response to a comment from a netizen, “Isn’t this a fabricated post?” Mr. A said, “It sounds a bit funny.” He retorted, “There are many elderly people who make meaningless jokes without thinking, and these jokes are not funny at all.”

Then, “a few years into my marriage, I said to my husband, ‘He’s my dad, and I did say things like that.'” He told me to just say what I wanted to say. It seemed like it was hard for Dad to be with you. He added, “They said if you just say it, they’ll listen, so I asked them how I could do that, and then they just exploded.”

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