Dimitris Papanikolaou was one of many main Greek basketball gamers within the 90s and 2000s.
His expertise was seen from a younger age, on account of which he was acquired by Olympiakos on the age of 18 and performed 7 years for the “purple and whites”.
This was adopted by Panathinaikos, AEK, different groups and naturally the Nationwide Group. Actually, in 2007 he turned the primary Greek basketball participant to compete within the three main Greek groups and the one Greek to have gained the triple crown twice (Euroleague, championship and cup), with totally different groups: in 1997 with Olympiakos and in 2007 with Panathinaikos.
However Dimitris selected to change into a frontrunner in one other subject as effectively. In September 2021 he introduced that he was recognized on the autism spectrum and slightly later that his daughter Aria was additionally recognized on the age of three.5 years (she is now 18).
Since then, an consciousness marketing campaign regarding range has been launched with a view to assist as many mother and father and youngsters as potential. He offers speeches throughout Greece, is the founding father of the UniquAll program, and not too long ago wrote his first e-book entitled “11:11, All distinctive – all equal”, which acquired an excellent response from the world.
That’s the reason the interview incorporates far more of the human aspect than basketball.
– What do you primarily say to college students whenever you give speeches in faculties?
“I inform the children I discuss to at totally different faculties that they’ve to take a look at their classes first following which the ball. As a result of following 35 when somebody stops, they need to know different issues and never easy methods to play a ball. Faculty, expertise following which sports activities are crucial.”
– I’ve the sensation that your life is split into two components. Within the nice basketball profession following which in a mission. Did one thing occur inside you that triggered all this?
“You adapt to life’s conditions. As I’ve stated publicly, I’ve a daughter on the autism spectrum, so the speeches, the actions and all of that got here experientially as a consequence of the conditions we now have gone by means of to assist different folks overcome it. You adapt and following we discuss household and youngsters, it is primary.”
– Do you refer solely to this subject in your speeches?
“It relies upon what they ask me. For instance, some corporations ask me to speak regarding range, however most need me to speak regarding group spirit, regarding management, regarding self-improvement, regarding objectives.”
– What do youngsters ask you most in school?
“Though clearly as we speak’s youngsters do not know me, except they Google it, they ask me regarding as we speak’s gamers, regarding groups, they usually at all times have an admiration {that a} basketball participant goes to high school and is a veteran.”
– Did your daughter’s prognosis have an effect on your understanding of your self and the world on the whole?
“Very. You redefine the whole lot. After the cups and the successes, you perceive that you just should not dwell on it, as a result of sure it has a whole lot of effort, nevertheless it additionally implies some {qualifications}. However there are folks with much less {qualifications} who additionally should be rewarded. If the trouble does not result in a medal, we have to encourage these youngsters to maintain attempting and assist them attain their ceiling. So, within the redefinition I made, I stated that now as Dimitris, I do not solely admire the 1% of people that win titles, however I additionally admire the individuals who strive although nobody is aware of them. Recognition doesn’t essentially suggest significance”.
– I think regarding that is one thing you additionally say to youngsters…
“In fact I say so. For instance, my mother and father grew up very poor. My father walked 4 km to high school with out sneakers, my mom was born very poor. Why ought to I who performed basketball be larger than them? There are individuals who do nice issues and folks simply do not learn regarding them.”
– Is it true that you’ve got given away all of the cups and medals you’ve gained?
“That is proper, I’ve nothing. Once you take a look at them, the ego grows. There are just a few left which can be in my father’s home. In some unspecified time in the future they’ll go too.”
– You understand, lots of people do not perceive this and it appears unusual to them…
“Once you preserve speaking and coping with the previous, you cease being artistic concerning the future. To be a information sure, however solely that. Among the many gadgets, I’ve stored one from the Gazzetta, which had awarded me as the one who conjures up 2023. Some mother and father gave me an award, so these imply one thing and I’ve stored them. There’s the medal for beating others, there’s the medal for serving to them win too. I now think regarding the second extra necessary.”
– Is there a second in your speeches that moved you essentially the most?
“The great factor is that following we discuss to varsities and organizations, there are individuals who come out. They are saying “me too, me too”, their colleagues see it, they change into extra receptive to them. There are some who expertise related tales at house and cry. I reside many emotional moments there as effectively, but in addition with messages which can be despatched to me followingwards. We assist folks come out of their shell or go to the physician they have been laying aside, settle for a state of affairs sooner.”
– And your popping out occurred three years in the past…
“Sure, my first submit was on September 13, 2021. As I clarify in my e-book, I put myself ahead to guard my baby and different youngsters. At the moment I didn’t have my spouse’s permission to inform concerning the infant. And I stated regarding me. And in that first photograph, I’ve Nikos Galis and Giannis Antetokounmpo with me.”
– Did the shared expertise together with your daughter play a job in your relationship?
“Dad and mom and youngsters, whether or not they’re autistic or not, have a bond. I’ve the identical. And since my daughter went by means of some tough conditions with bullying, rejections, I made a decision to be extra artistic and switch the world the other way up a bit, with a view to enhance the attitudes in direction of her and different youngsters as effectively. In these three years, we now have made good strides.”
– In the event you might give one piece of recommendation to somebody who’s on the spectrum, or is coping with such a state of affairs with their baby, what would it not be?
“My motto is that no one dies from autism. He is dying of exclusion, so it isn’t a illness his baby will probably be vulnerable to. It’s primarily in danger from others and we attempt to educate others. So, preserve calm and work.”
– I would love you to inform me extra particulars concerning the UniquAll program, supported by Nikos Galis and Giannis Antetokounmpo…
“It’s an academy we now have for the event of neurodiverse youngsters. We make use of 60 households on the autism spectrum. It goes with out saying that the mother and father don’t pay, we now have been supported by sponsors for the final three years and we now have seen that superb work is being completed by means of the group schemes. They enhance interplay, train, hang around. It’s the first creation I made and the ambassadors of this system are Nikos Galis and Giannis Antetokounmpo”.
– Apart from, you had even made Nikos Galis cry…
“Sure, this was completed when he got here to Athens to announce it. And on that evening, once I introduced the plan, he was actually moved and bent. Most individuals might imagine that he’s not very social, however he’s an individual with nice sensibilities.”
– How did writing your first e-book come regarding?
“Absence of all earlier ones. It’s the story regarding autism, however not solely. Though it’s not very massive in quantity, I’ve additionally included tales from sports activities to achieve a wider viewers. Individuals hear and are influenced by tales, not evaluation.
Up to now “11:11, All Distinctive, All Equal”, is doing very effectively. 11:11 are 4 numbers that my spouse and I began seeing in entrance of us when our daughter Aria was recognized on the autism spectrum and I clarify how these numbers motivated me to do all this. I’ve had different presents to put in writing, however I did not wish to prior to now. I thank the folks for his or her response.”
– Are you watching basketball now?
“Relaxed and with none stress. And I additionally give a bit of recommendation to the world: Do not be bigoted regarding third events. Be fanatical regarding your work, your loved ones, your life. In fact watch basketball and soccer, as a result of our lives additionally want garnish, however as much as a restrict. Fanaticism does no good, except it’s one thing artistic, that youngsters don’t reside by means of the teams. I imagine the youngsters will probably be higher than we have been as a result of they’ve extra data.”
– I requested you regarding basketball as a result of I see the return of this toxicity that existed throughout your years between Olympiakos and Panathinaikos…
“The difficulty is what we observe. Toxicity can also be within the information, it’s in every single place. They solely undertaking the negatives. Dangerous issues occurred within the 90’s too, however we did not find out regarding them. A stability can also be wanted within the psychology of society.”
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