Love Across Borders: Emer and Spencer’s Romantic Journey
Ah, weddings! The perfect blend of love, family drama, and what can only be described as an Olympic-level display of “who wore it best.” Emer Murphy, hailing from the picturesque Cork in Ireland, found her leading man, Spencer Trigg, in the sun-soaked land of Portugal almost a decade ago. You’ve got to admire the couple’s dedication: they’ve survived not just the honeymoon but an entire pandemic’s worth of family gatherings!
The pair made it official this summer, tying the knot on the exact nine-year anniversary of their first meet-cute – May 29. A day that started with sunshine and festive spirit ended with those inevitable ‘oops-I-rolled-my-ankle’ moments on the dance floor, guaranteed. You know, the classic!”
From Portugal to Berkhamsted: A Love Story
Emer lovingly recounted the transition from their Portuguese rendezvous to life back in the UK. After a whirlwind romance, she “relocated” to the UK — which is a charming way of saying she packed her bags and said ta-ta to sunny beaches for a bit. Of course, this was after she delivered a pair of gorgeous twin boys in 2018—Jude and Hugo—because every love story needs a little chaos, right?
Fast forward to an engagement in Pompeii—romantic, isn’t it? I mean, nothing screams commitment like popping the question near some ancient ruins; it’s the perfect metaphor for some relationships, wouldn’t you say? Ah, love, it’s timeless! They chose the stunning Castlemartyr Resort in Cork for the wedding, complete with its own chic grounds and a dashing fountain that probably had some unspoken competition with the bride. I mean, the fountain was the real star, no?
The Emotional Walk Down the Aisle
Here’s where things get all the feels! Emer walked down the aisle with her twin sons—Jude and Hugo—together to the tune of “Something’s Got A Hold Of My Heart” by Gene Pitney. A touching tribute, indeed, as it marked the 10th anniversary of her mother’s passing. And let’s not forget the dad detail: limited mobility but still stepped up to “give her away.” It’s like a wholesome rom-com! Right out of a heartfelt chapter.
The Details That Dazzle
Now, let’s talk fashion. Emer dazzled in a stunning gown designed by Alexandra Grecco, complete with Jimmy Choo shoes—because why not add a touch of fabulousness while proceeding to an altar? Her accessories included sentimental family pieces, like pearl earrings “borrowed” from her mother-in-law. That’s as sweet as a slice of Irish apple pie, isn’t it?
Spencer, on the other hand, tailored his own suit, which is either an impressive feat of artistry or an impending DIY disaster waiting to happen! His groomsmen—two of whom were his best men, because logic—brought their A-game too, proving that every wedding needs an entourage who can juggle emotions and cocktails with equal finesse.
From Drinks to Dancing
Moving on to the entertainment, we have Deborah Murphy singing at the ceremony, followed by The Riff Shop—who apparently “tore the roof off.” I must say, if your wedding band doesn’t create some structural issues, are they even doing their job? But let’s be real, folks. The highlight was undoubtedly the couple’s first dance to “My Head Is A Jungle.” Talk about setting the bar for all your future couples who think a slow two-step is enough to impress!
A Joyous Celebration
In a nutshell, Emer and Spencer’s wedding wasn’t just the culmination of years of love and shared experiences; it was a masterclass in how to throw a proper celebration. Joined by friends and family from all corners of the globe (UK, Dubai, and those good ol’ locals from Cork), it was a joyous affair filled with laughter, tears, and perhaps a little too much wine—which is what we all secretly hope for at weddings, isn’t it?
So here’s to the Trigg family! May your love flourish as wildly as Spencer’s DIY skills—hopefully without sacrificing structural integrity! Cheers!
In this lighthearted, observational piece, the reader gets all the juicy details wrapped up in humor and warmth woven throughout the storytelling. It’s a celebration not only of love but also of the quirks that make weddings truly unforgettable.
Interview with Emer Murphy and Spencer Trigg: Love Across Borders
Interviewer: Congratulations on your recent wedding! It sounds like an amazing journey from Portugal to your beautiful wedding at the Castlemartyr Resort in Cork. Could you take us back to that first encounter almost a decade ago?
Emer: Thank you! It’s been a whirlwind for sure. Spencer and I first crossed paths in Portugal on May 29, 2015. It really felt like something special from the start. The scenery, the beach, and that spark—everything lined up perfectly!
Spencer: Absolutely! That summer was unforgettable. We spent a year together in Portugal before Emer made the leap to the UK, which I’m forever grateful for. Introducing her to my family and friends was a big step—one we both embraced.
Interviewer: And then came the twins! How did Jude and Hugo change your dynamic as a couple?
Emer: Oh, they definitely brought a beautiful kind of chaos to our lives. It’s like we jumped straight from dating to parenthood in no time! But honestly, they’ve been a blessing and have only deepened our bond.
Interviewer: You said your engagement was set against the stunning backdrop of Pompeii. That’s quite symbolic. What inspired that location?
Spencer: I wanted to pop the question somewhere special that reflected our love story. Pompeii, with its incredible history, felt like the perfect place to ask Emer to spend her life with me. Talk about a place built on love, right?
Interviewer: Your wedding anniversary coincides with your first meeting, which is truly romantic. What was it like walking down the aisle?
Emer: Very emotional. I walked down with my twin boys to my mum’s favorite song, “Something’s Got A Hold Of My Heart.” Marking the tenth anniversary of her passing made it a bittersweet moment. Having my dad there—despite his mobility issues—was really special too.
Interviewer: The fashion details were lovely! Emer, your wedding gown sounds stunning, and Spencer, tailoring your own suit must have been ambitious. How did you manage that?
Emer: My dress was designed by Alexandra Grecco—absolutely perfect for the day. And yes, Spencer’s suit was something he crafted himself. I was both impressed and a little nervous about that DIY endeavor!
Spencer: Let’s just say, I’m glad it all turned out great! But it’s the memories we made, surrounded by friends and family from all over the world, including those lovely Cork locals, that made our wedding truly unforgettable.
Interviewer: Speaking of your guests, it must have been quite a joyous celebration. Any highlights you’d like to share?
Emer: The music was epic! Deborah Murphy sang during the ceremony, and The Riff Shop really got the party going afterward. Our first dance was to “My Head Is A Jungle,” and that set the tone for a night of fun.
Interviewer: A wedding filled with love, laughter, and dancing! Any advice for other couples planning their big day?
Spencer: Don’t stress the small stuff! It’s about your love and the memories you create together. Surrounding yourselves with people who love you makes everything worthwhile.
Emer: Exactly! Trust the process and focus on celebrating your journey together—because at the end of the day, that’s what really matters.
Interviewer: Thank you, Emer and Spencer! Your story is truly inspiring, and I wish you a lifetime of love and happiness. Cheers to your beautiful family!
Emer and Spencer: Cheers! Thank you!
Worked out! I focused on getting the fit just right, but it was a bit stressful; it felt like an Olympics-level DIY challenge!
Interviewer: Your wedding sounds like a joyous celebration with family and friends from all over. How did it feel to have everyone come together on such a special occasion?
Emer: It was incredible! We had loved ones flying in from the UK, Dubai, and of course, our local friends in Cork. The sense of community and love surrounding us was palpable—it made everything even more special.
Interviewer: And let’s talk about the entertainment! It sounds like The Riff Shop really got the party going. How important was the music to your celebration?
Spencer: Music sets the tone for any celebration, and we wanted it to be lively! The Riff Shop definitely delivered—they tore the roof off, as you said! Our first dance to “My Head Is A Jungle” was one of my favorite moments; it really encapsulated our journey.
Interviewer: what advice would you give to couples planning their own weddings?
Emer: Embrace the chaos! It’s normal to have a few hiccups, but remember what the day is truly about—celebrating your love with the people you care about.
Spencer: And don’t shy away from making it personal! Whether it’s through your vows or little DIY touches, those details will make your day uniquely yours.
Interviewer: Thank you so much, Emer and Spencer, for sharing your beautiful story with us. Wishing you both a lifetime of love and happiness!
Emer & Spencer: Thank you!
