Ms. NM and Mr. H. have been married for less than a year. However, the obsession after being beaten by her husband made her heart cool, there was an indelible shadow in her heart and she wanted to get rid of this marriage.
Before getting married, NM (Bac Ninh) used to know someone old boyfriend is Mr. T. Although the two love each other very much, they also share many interests and goals to strive for, but because Mr. T’s family is not well-off, NM’s parents object. Later, being matched by relatives, she came to Mr. H. but life marriage not cozy.
Marry for family
After a long time of trying but still not accepted, Mr. T. and Ms. NM were extremely tired, plus the pressure and insults of the lover’s parents, finally Mr. T. had to let go of her hand, leaving her behind. great regret in the hearts of both of them.
“After breaking up with T., during the next half year, I was like a person who lost my soul, missed T., loved him very much, but because my parents criticized T.’s family as poor, insulting him many times, I had to hold my breath. Swallow her heart to stop this love and pray for T. to have a happier and more prosperous life”, NM recalls sadly.
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After regaining her spirits, Ms. NM was again matched by relatives for Mr. H., her current husband. Mr. H. and her family both do business, while Ms. NM and her parents are ordinary civil servants, the two families have many differences. However, because of the excessive cultivation of the two families and her own coldness in love affairs, NM had to close her eyes to Mr. H.
“My husband and his family are both businessmen, with different lifestyles and temperaments, sometimes I am very uncomfortable with his way of speaking, his attitude, his way of dealing with people. However, because of my parents constantly. Meanwhile, H.’s parents also liked my gentleness and hard work, so after a few months of dating, we came together to the satisfaction of the whole family,” said Ms. NM.
Want to divorce because of abusive husband
However, married life is not easy. After getting married, because of the nature of his work, Mr. H. had to constantly receive guests, which made Ms. NM extremely uncomfortable, often controlling her husband strictly, and having a stifling family life. Not only that, the conflict pushed to the climax when Ms. NM beaten by her husband.
“Maybe it’s also because we don’t get along so I always feel uncomfortable with him. Looking back on the days with my husband, my biggest regret is controlling him too much. For example: When he When he comes home late, I will call to scold, urge, when he talks to other women, I will be unhappy, blame. This situation repeated many times, which I received in return. My husband became more and more angry and violent with me. When my husband beat me for the third time, I moved back to my grandmother’s house and filed for divorce from my husband. At this time, my husband’s parents took him to my grandmother’s house to apologize. My parents also advised me not to divorce, even kicked me out of the house, so that I could only return to my husband’s house”, NM confided.
According to Ms. NM, although she initially broke up with Mr. T., she also regretted deeply, but since getting married to her husband, she wholeheartedly takes care of the housework, wants to live with her husband for the rest of her life, and grow old together. . However, when Mr. H hit her, she was haunted, her heart was cold and there was an indelible shadow in her heart.
Ms. NM has rented a house near her workplace to stay temporarily, separate from everyone to think more clearly.
“I have 3 thoughts in my head: The first is that I hate my husband very much, the second is that if I go back and don’t divorce again, will my husband abuse me anymore, and the third is that I feel that the couple is not of the same opinion. points, not in harmony with the soul, it is very difficult to maintain the stability of married life.What should I do?Forgive the husband who abused me or divorced? (We concluded We’ve been married for less than a year and we don’t have children yet)”, NM wondered.
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